Kathy - posted on 07/05/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
I feel so empty and sad. I just dont know what to do. We had an argument, but all mothers and daughters do. She turned 18 and within a week and her "friends" outside influence, packed up a car and moved out, saying it was time for her to move on. I would have never known, had I not arrived home to see this happening. She would not even talk to me, It was like the devil was in her, so much anger.
We had a talk the night before about making up a contract with the rules of the house and consequences if those were not followed. We were going to discuss it further the day she left. I am guessing she had it planned all along, but she lied to me as to where she was going.
She told me she was going by her dads, but I found out she is living with her so called instigator friend and family.She has not called me, except to text me if she had car insurance. I asked her to call me. She has not.
So how do I go about communicating with her.?? I dont feel I should, as it was her choice to leave. ( I know her dad is enabling this, as her friends mother is as well) She told them I kicked her out, so I can imagine what other lies were said as well. She has no money,no car, and no plan. help!