Marybeth - posted on 12/14/2009 ( 179 moms have responded )
I have been with my boyfriend for a few years now. I have 2 kids (12 & 16yrs) from before and we have 1 together. My kids do not want to call him Dad until we get married, I allowed them to make that decision. Since he still hasn't asked me to marry him we don't know if or when that will ever be. I don't feel I should force them to call him Dad but he does and has a lot of resentment for my decision. He said I asked them to be my daughters and they said no not until we marry. Should I force them to call him dad?