Dawn - posted on 03/25/2010 ( 65 moms have responded )
I had my son when I was 17. I never got any child support for him. That was ok then. My parents helped me out and besides, the fater was a drug dealer and moved 5 states away. My son is now 18. My daughter on the other hand is 6. She was concieved on a 1 night stand with a guy that was a friend. I was affraid to tell him I was pregnant. But I wrote him a letter. A week after I sent it I got a nasty unsigned " mom to be" card in the mail. I don't know if it was from him, but the timing was right. After I had my beautiful little girl I called him and asked if he would like to see his daughter. he told me he was busy, he would call me tomorrow. Tomorrow never came. I have a good job, I own my own home, have a nice vehicle. I do fine for my 2 kids. But, i think i could do more. I was thinking about going for child support. He is now married with 2 children with his wife. i'm sure she doesn't know about his 1st child. What should I do?