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I have already booked an all-inclusive vacation to Cancun for Memorial Day weekend. My 16 year old daughter hates me and has verbalized this over and over. She is currently residing at my ex and his wife's house as she is completely disruptive to my household. She does want to reside there. I have provided this girl w/ a cell phone, desk-top computer (shared w/ her 2 other sisters) pretty much anything- that she needs such as make-up and shampoo that is anything but Suave..... She recently got into a fight at school and is now on a 10 day out-of-school suspension. She has a probation officer and I have seriously grounded her (which is being followed at my ex's house, too) No cell, no computer, No Facebook. Last Saturday I learned that she was still using a hidden land-line phone and her younger sister gave her her Itouch to get on the internet. So she was using Facebook. I locked her out of her facebook which angered her so much she left me a voicemail and I quote " You have messed w/ my life you F****** Bit**, I am going to come over there and punch you in the face. You can shove that up your fat a**, Bit**" This morning I have now learned that she contacted Facebook and told them her account had been hacked and she created a whole new Facebook. So she is still breaking the no computer rules. I learned that she created a whole new FB because I read a post on her friends walls. "I hate my mom....she doesn't want me talking to you.....I hate that bitch......" (BTW this is the girl she fought with at school)-that was Thursday at 1 a.m. Her stepmom had on idea she was on the computer. Regardless she is still breaking the rules, hates me and calls me names. Should I not let her go on our family vacation to Cancun?