Lesly - posted on 05/28/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
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This is not about the past,this is about now how dare some illiterate fool who I had to tell what year he was born,same dumb nigga how to read come now and verbal and mentally abuse my child his own flesh and blood.well i see I'm all she got so.Here I am..
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Sally - posted on 06/02/2012
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1st. Please don't call him a sperm donor, his not his the father of your child amd you chose to have a baby with him.
Please understand that your child will pick up on your anger which will only hurt and confuse them more. You sound like a mother bear protecting her cub and i totally get were you coming from and admire that you want to see your child happy. You cannot make someone change if they don't want to. Just try and be calm amd give your little one extra hugs when they are upset. I know its hard but focas on you and your child.
Lesly - posted on 05/30/2012
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@ D Bartley yes I am angry,and I did not want to have a baby with anyone at that time.I did take precautions.This was not an over night thing,this man had other kids.I watched him with them he was good.I had a Son he treated him him good too.After 3 years with this man basically begging me to have his child and all the promises,he convinced me I wanted one too.( NO IT WASN'T RAPE).I tried countless of times to let him see that it's not about us that it's about her which went futile.That is what brought me to this.He has no reasoning ability at all.Sometimes I listen to him and say to myself gee what was I thinking.When it comes to her education,her life anything he is mute.Don't call her on her Birthday, I gave him the house # maybe a 100 times for him to call her while I am at work he never did,but he can wish me happy Mother's day he could keep that concentrate on her.The look on my child face the hurt in her eyes got me like this.I tried so I have a right to be angry I protect mine.Thanks for the feed back I told him I was going to do this to see other people view..To learn more see text messages ect. visit me on Tumblr >http://www.tumblr.com/blog/deadbeattonyd...
D - posted on 05/30/2012
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Wow. Sounds like you are angry. First of all he should not be abusing anyone. Second, why did you not take precautions when you were having sex if you did not want to have a baby with him? It does take two to have a child (well unless its rape). Maybe try to let go of your anger to him, and try for a productive relationship between the two of them. Maybe your anger is getting in the way of that. He may be a loser, and acting out because of your attitude (or maybe he is just a plain and simple loser - I dont know)....Try to be the better person and facilitate a relationship between them without your hostilities. Who knows, he may come around and be a better father.
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