When to let daughter have thongs?

Amy - posted on 11/14/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have a 12 year old daughter and she is begging and begging for thongs and shorter than short shorts and she flirts more than I ever did. When is it time to give in to some of that stuff? And I know its only a matter of time before she wants to start having boys over. What DO I do?!

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Hope - posted on 11/16/2016

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It's underwear. Who cares. Be glad she's wearing something. So what if it doesn't cover her buns, a thong is to prevent panty lines. I don't have a daughter but have many friends that have one your age. To be fair, you know your child, so you are the best person to decide what's right for her. Some 12 year old girls I know are already having sex. I know of one who will be a mother in a few months. I don't think it's bad for her to have a boy over...but no closed doors! When she has her own place, she is welcome to close a door. Good luck! :)

Ev - posted on 11/15/2016

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Nope, too young. When she grows up and can buy her own clothing will she be able to get thongs and short shorts. Also you need to have a long talk with her about flirting at age 12 and what it can lead to. SHe is TOO YOUNG!

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Amy - posted on 11/14/2017

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So.... update! Ive started letting her pick out her own underwear and she had her first trip to Victorias Secret and her eyes lit up like it was Christmas! Another underwear addict in the making, mostly thongs, but she ended up with all types. She is allowed to have a boy over, but they stay in the living room, but I let them have the basement once just to see how she would behave. She said all they did was kiss, she's 13 now, so I feel like its more than fine

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