Lauryan - posted on 01/07/2009 ( 33 moms have responded )
So yeah this is a typical mom's topic but I am looking for help here.
Aiden KNOWS when he is doing something - he stops and looks down and tells me as soon as he is finished. but he will not tell me before he needs to go (with the exception of when we are at someone else's home or at the shops - he seems to love to Pee on strange loos). If I put him on the loo without saying anything (before bath time) he wee's so nicely. If I try get him on there in the rest of the day he says NO and runs away.
When he wears undies, he will just wee through them onto the floor.
I have tried a reward system - stickers, going out, ice cream, jelly, sweets, new books.
I have tried to tell him big boys wee in the toilet - he nods in agreement and carries on.
I know he understands, and I know he can do it.. but yeah how do I get him to ACTUALLY now tell me before hand? any ideas?