"school makes me boring"

Rachael - posted on 10/26/2008 ( 7 moms have responded )

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I have taught the gifted classes in Middle School for the last 9 years.... 3 years ago I had my own son... and soon I began to notice he was different than other kids... This kid is crazy smart, and trying to keep up with him is already a handful.

Already at 3, he cries before preschool, because "School makes me boring". Ok, if your kid is bored at 3, what does this mean for the future? I mean really, what do I do.

I don't want to be "one of those moms" who blames behaviors and such on boredom, but in every preschool we looked at they are working on numbers up to 9, aren't even dealing in letters, basic shapes, and maybe colors. J did all of that before he was 2. This kid will put 3 triangles together and tell you he made a trapezoid. He knows what a rhombus is. He is phonetically reading and adding and subtracting single digit numbers.

He won't play with the other kids, I watch him interact, and they just can't do the things he likes. He doesn't like to run around and play. He likes to build complicated things with legos and train tracks... and other kids can't do it right according to him. When we come home, he wants to work in workbooks and read...

Here I am a teacher, and I can't figure out how to get my own child to want to go to school.

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Tammy - posted on 11/09/2008

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Don't let socialization stop you from homeschooling. Join a homeschooling group and your child will get more 'productive' socialization that in most schools. A good friend of mine homeschooles and there are groupd activities planned all the time, about 12 a week.

Michele - posted on 11/08/2008

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I have a friend who homeschools and she belongs to a group of other families in the area who also homeschool. They get together often for field trips and it provides not only social experiences and interactions, but learning opportunites that these kids may not be able to get within a public school system. I know they have joined 4-H as a group and participated in many activities through that. It's just a thought if it's the lack of social interaction is what worries you about homeschooling.

Rachael - posted on 11/01/2008

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I had thought of homeschooling... but J has some social issues... He NEEDS to be around other kids, mainly because he doesn't like being around other kids. He would be perfectly happy with me all the time. Here they won't test for gifted until 3rd grade! He is already so very very small for his age, as in, at almost 4, he still wears 12-18 month clothing... so skipping grades, and starting early aren't really an option... not with his social issues. To be fair, my husband's IQ is over 140, as is mine... but I don't want him to fall into the traps we did.

Samantha - posted on 10/31/2008

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Well, luckily they created a school in our district that is for gifted education. They teach kids who are in that zone, plus all of the districts special, and gifted education students. All the kids in my sons class have a minimum IQ of 125 or 130 I believe.

Emily - posted on 10/31/2008

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Have you considered home school? Especially since you are an educator, you'd be great at it and I think your child will respond very well since you are going at his pace versus him waiting around for the other children to catch up to his level.

Heather - posted on 10/30/2008

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What is a gifted public school? In our district, their only answer for us was to have my daughter skip grades. They have a gifted program, which she's been going to for 2 years, but it only meets one day out of the week. Sure. . skipping a couple grades solves an immediate problem, but there will come a time when she gets bored once again. Socially, I don't know that continuing to skip is the answer??

Samantha - posted on 10/29/2008

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Sounds like my son! :-) He picked up a book and started reading on his own. No one taught him! (well except sesame street! ha!)

I brought him for a gifted screening and they recommended testing. He was tested by a psychologist and had a WAY high IQ and is now in a gifted public school. I was told that even gifted education wouldn't challenge him and that "we'll take it as we go and see what we can do"

So I load him up with extra activities to take to school. Harder reading, flash cards, puzzles, etc. He does those when things get boring in school. He loves the whole pokemon thing now too which is really cool. He loves and chess and drawing too. He asked me yesterday "Can I have a book of my own with lines to I write things down that I'm thinking about every day?" um yeah! You want to start journaling at 6!? okay...

Hope that helps...