Anyone else suffer a miscarriage... I was 8 months pregnant...

Kljlkjlkj - posted on 03/04/2013

Lucky. I wish my girlfriend would have a miscarriage. count your blessings.

Rebecca - posted on 11/18/2012

I lost what would have been my second child Feb 22 2008 at 13wks.

Chido - posted on 11/04/2012

i can relate to wat you are talking abt..iv just recently lost my baby at 8 months as well..only difference is tht i had mild bleeding first then clots of blood and when they did the ultrasound there was no sign at all of my baby..just a lot of bleeding..up to this day i belive that this was not just a physical thing but more of a spirirtual attack..i will never understand and never get over it..doctors could not explain wat had happend..the loss of a child is so painful

Mary - posted on 09/08/2012

your story is so sad and am sorry about your lost am pregnant and its the worst time of life i wish i wasnt pregnant i alway dream that my first pregnancy would have been different.Its not easy especially when your with someone who beats you alot while your pregnant i had a job and life now i have nothing i have no work and cant even take care of my self i wish things would be different i feel like everthing happen for a reason maybe am been punish by god it just seem easier if i just die

Antonia - posted on 04/06/2012

This came up on google and I knew it was for my sister kassie! Even though I was there when she had my niece Laylah Ann I still teared up reading this! I miss my niece so much more then words can explain! I love you sister!

Rebecca - posted on 09/05/2010

OMG I am so sorry for your loss. ( I cried the whole time reading this and I am still crying now.) I have had 2 miscarriages but both before 12 weeks and those were hard enough I can't even imagine what you are going through. I also have 2 children (who are 25 months and 9 months, so they do not understand) but even so they were my strength when I had my second miscarriage 8 weeks ago.
Again I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers will be with you always. xox

Sarh - posted on 08/29/2010

OMG! I'm so sorry. I cried while reading this. My mom was pregnant w/twins when I was 18 months old. She was 7 months along when she miscarried. She donated them to science and did not see them and did not want to know anything about them. But, when she had my brother 6-7 yrs later for some reason her doctor gave her the autopsy reports and she then found out that they both had no extremities. they were identical twins. But since she has told me this, I truly believe everything happens for a reason! There might not have been something as obvious as there were w/my mom's twins, but there could have been something else that she is better off in heaven then trying to survive in this cruel world w/any type of "disorder" or "disease".
I myself have had 3 very early on miscarriages, all about a yr apart. Those were hard for me, I don't know what I would have done if I would have felt movement or heard the heart beat. i give you and my mom kudos for continuing on!!! After each of my miscarriages I just held my daughter even closer (which I didn't know was possible!!). When I became pregnant w/my son I was extremely nervous, but forced myself to relax. He some how survived through the stress of my grandfather and 2 close friends passing away all w/in the same month and a half!
Good luck in the future, and just cherish your 2 little boys!

Rebecca - posted on 08/21/2010

Kassie: I'm so terribly sorry that this happened to you and your family. I had a friend who had an almost identical loss -- she was 32 weeks pregnant and also noticed the baby wasn't moving and learned via ultrasound that the baby was no longer alive. She chose to go home rather than be induced and went into labor a few days later. I know there is nothing I can say to make things better but know that everyone's thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.

Carla - posted on 08/21/2010

Hi i have had 2 miscarriages one in 2005 i was 8weeks gone, and my second in Dec 2007 i was 22weeks and started bleeding went to the hospital and the placenta had wrapped around my little girls next and strangled her whilst she was moving about, they said this was very rare as the placenta shouldn't be near her till very late in the birth ... we named her Cassy Thompson...
We had a boy on the 19th September 2009 we named him Alfee Edward Thompson he weighed 9lb 5oz... xxx
I have a friend who lost both her children at 34weeks, a little girl then 2years later a little boy, it seams she can't carry above that stage, but the baby isn't strong enough to live outside the body at that stage.

Ashleigh - posted on 08/18/2010

I'm so sorry for you loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Its nice that you were able to say good bye to her in a beautiful memorial, she will be in the hearts of everyone. If you need anything reach out I'm here to listen.

Jennifer - posted on 08/17/2010

omg thats so sad luv ive lost two babies but not that far into my preggos i feel ur pain but having ur baby move n feel her that would of breakin my heart too chin up luv god has her n just think she was safe from the world n all the bad stuff that is in it n now she is in a better place with god looking after her.she will be watching u guys..she is along with my 2 having loads of fun.i hope u 2 r copping just think if she did survive out in the world she could of had a heart defect n died in ur arms or in her sleep at home.i know god does the most horrible things n there is always a reason. I had my uncle die on the day one of my friends gave birth to her first child thats was so hard for me to be happy for her but i realised my uncle gave life to that little boy she had n the world works like that well thats how i would like to think about it.so maybe ur lil girl gave life back to another kid or something iam just trying to help not affend u if i was futher along in my preggos when i lost them ihave no idea how i would be copping n i think i would be getting theraphy or something i hope if u ever try again ur child is another girl n she is healthy n brings u the happness u derserve. 