Thinking about trying for another baby, is it too soon?

Samantha - posted on 03/06/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I have a daughter who is 4 &1/2 and an angel son who remains forever 9 days old. We named him Matteo Massimo, he died suddenly and unexpectedly 5th November 11. Me and my husband really would like to have another baby and we are both thinking of trying right away. Do you think it's too soon?



We are still awaiting full post mortem results, initial results show he had a rare heart condition, endocardial fibroelastosis and aortic stenosis, which maybe genetic. What if it is genetic and i can't bring myself to try again out of fear? are some things better unknown?

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Keta - posted on 03/09/2012

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Sorry to hear about your loss. I've lost two angel babies and I haven't been blessed to give birth to a full-term healthy baby.



I think that it is best to get the testing done and see what your results are. Maybe your doctor can give you advice on what your body/uterus can handle. I've heard that most doctors advise after 3 menstral cycles.



Best of luck to you!