Christy - posted on 08/10/2011 ( 20 moms have responded )
So today's my 15 yr anniversary, and husband and I planned to celebrate it this Friday since he has to work. Ok. Well I went ahead and sent a gift to his work today, and packed his lunch with a nice note inside. When he woke up for work, I waited and waited for him to tell me Happy Anniversary and he never did so I said it. Then, he decided 2 weeks ago to make plans for tonight to teach a class (TOTALLY VOLUNTARY, BTW and no pay). I am just sad. I sound so whiney but keep in mind I made the plans for this Friday night, coordinated a sitter and everything. Last year I made the plans as well and it was a complete bust (got tickets for a dinner cruise in the bay and all night he complained he felt sick, then got MAD AT ME for being irritated about it-which I never said ANYTHING negative that night about him not feeling well). I am so tired of trying. I just wanted at least a card or something today. Anyway, am I being selfish?