Determined - posted on 05/29/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
It's kinda a long story but here is goes. My husband has two sisters and sister #1 was here a few weeks ago and was telling us something that sister #2's husband (Josh) said, Josh was talking to sister #1's husband (Bart) and showed him a picture of his daughter (from a previous relationship) whom he recently was granted visitation rights. The girls is 14 and Josh said to Bart "Look at my daughter she's f***ing hot!" Those where sister #1's exact words. So before I could even make a remark my husband said "well that pervert is not allowed in our house around our kids." He calls sister #2 and tells her this that her husband is not welcome here. Both of my husband's sisters and his mother says that we are overreacting and taking Josh's comment out of context and that he didn't mean that in a perverted way. So if you were in our shoes would you be comfortable having Josh around your children after saying his own biologicial daughter was "Fing hot?" Are we beind ridiculouslly over protective as his family is saying? Honestly I don't see how Josh's comment can be interpreted in any other way. What is your take?