If you got it flaunt it... if you dont... oh please

Christina - posted on 06/18/2011 ( 37 moms have responded )

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Ok so this is one of my biggest pet peeves... I'm admittedly a voluptuous girl. I have curves and I'm not ashamed I flaunt my most appealing features when appropriate.

But OMG... I was at WALMART and this mom had all her stuff hanging out... I mean all of it. Dang close to nipple hanging out and if she walked any faster
I'm pretty sure I would have got a crotch shot, not to mention her sizable midsection hanging out the bottom of her shirt.

I have nothing against bigger people, after all I am one. But why do some think it's ok to walk around with all their stuff hanging out. I don't have a lot of money, but i always make sure I'm appropriately dressed.

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√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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OH OH my favorite the other day was a girl that had to have been 350 lbs wearing a HOOTERS shirt where her fat roll was bigger and saggier than her floppy tits!!!!!!!! In streatch pants of course...... aaaaaaah..........

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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I admit to wearing PJ's but it was more of a phase in high school. I haven't done it in years - it feels wrong. lol The adult method to looking like a total lazy 'cute' bum is to apparently have streatch pants that look like jogging pants. Which is AWESOME because usually most people wearing them are CLEARLY not ever going jogging nor have they been LOL
In fact, I just went and bought these really fat streatchy pants because this pregnancy the baby is sitting lower so all my pants fit, jeans even, but theres NO way not even my pregnancy ones fit around my waist line, it sucks. Makes me cramp. Anyway......... huge waist......... so I bought like 4x streatch pants.......... and in the inside waist band there's a tiny pocket for something. Ipod holder? Really? There's NO way someone wearing these pants needs to stash an Ipod! Like I said, people this big aren't joggin lmao so my boyfriend and I joke about my candybar/cookie pocket stash :)

Oh, and if you realllly want to do it....... put JUICY across your butt........ thats socially acceptable when 'lounging' apparently in public........... I hate that look

Christina - posted on 06/26/2011

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Sorry I have had a couple of rough days so I haven't been able to get on... I guess saying lazy was kind of harsh... you are right you should be able to wear what you want... and if thats your idea of letting your hair down then work it girl...my original intent of this vent were people who dont cover up in public, if you are clean and covered then.... this particular case i was talking about where all the kids were in pjs they were covered but not clean..and who am i to judge.. im not judging ... i dont know where they were coming from ..maybe they were coming home from camping or something...my biggest peeve is just the people who where things that are obviously not meant to fit them...

Stifler's - posted on 06/23/2011

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LOL I have worn my pyjamas in the car through the drive thru but I wasn't getting out. I was praying I wouldn't get pulled over or breathalised.

Shannintipton - posted on 06/23/2011

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I have lots of cute 2 piece pj's too. But I don't wear them out. The one time I did just to go thru a fast food. The girl behind hit a wall and I had to call for the police and go to her house to tell her boyfriend that she crashed his car. So you just never know. So I dont even go to fast food. The last time I was going thru a drive-thru I got a ticket. Thank God I wasn't in my PJ's. LOL

Stifler's - posted on 06/23/2011

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I don't *whisper behind my hands* ROFL . I don't even SEE anyone wearing their pyjamas at the shops around here, I never have. I never said I judged other people for wearing their pyjamas, I said I wouldn't be caught dead in my pyjamas because it's not that hard to find clothes and wear them.

Tabitha - posted on 06/23/2011

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It's called comfort...and not to mention my pajamas are not only comfortable but they are also cute. I wear them often when i go out, and i could give a rat's ass about anyone who whispers behind their hands about the lady in a messy pony wearing pj's and slippers. Just don't let me hear cus i WILL tell you just how ignorant you are. Don't get me wrong i have my pet peeves just like anyone else, however pajama wearing people are not high on my priority list :)

Shannintipton - posted on 06/23/2011

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Its great. Hugh Heffner does it so why can't I. Just kidding.

Stifler's - posted on 06/23/2011

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I really still don't get why you'd get in the car and leave the house in pyjamas. That's not my idea of letting my hair down and having a good time. But anywho.

Tabitha - posted on 06/23/2011

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I dont get it what is so wrong about wearing pj's to the store, if you are clean and presentable, meaning all parts are covered and such then why is it not ok. I think calling a parent lazy because her and her kids were wearing pj's at 2 pm is a bit presumptuous of you. I only have 2 children and i work a full time job, you can often find me at the grocery at 12pm, and yes still in my pj's with my son and daughter tagging behind me carrying a pillow and a blanky wearing a sleeper! No it doesn't teach your kids to be lazy and it is not unappealing, it's called letting your hair down, and not always expecting your children to be perfectly put together. Maybe they were getting over a sickness or a family member was ill, maybe they just got back from a pajama party, or maybe just maybe mom decided to be a bit daring and told the kids" Let's all get in our pj's and go to the store!" It really irks me on how some people can be that judgemental on one chance encounter meeting. Its time to live outside your protective little bubble.

Stifler's - posted on 06/21/2011

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I wouldn't be caught dead wearing my pyjamas in public. They're not even that daggy it's just that I have other clothes and it does NOT take that long to find a pair or that wonderful invention called a dress and put it on.

Lacye - posted on 06/21/2011

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LOL this post reminds me of my husband's ex's sister! LOL she weighs about 400 pounds and tries to wear the spaghetti strapped shirts and you can see every roll that she has! I hate having to look at her. Thank god they live so far away!

Christina - posted on 06/21/2011

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Being pregnant is one thing, and I get that there are some situations that are unavoidable (I've been in a few myself during pregnancy). I'm just talking about having some respect for your self. No one needs to have all their stuff (boobs, belly, but) hanging out. If you are at home then by all means let it hang out, but if your going to be in public (and are not pregnant or at the water park) then there is no reason to flash all your goodies to everyone.

Christina - posted on 06/21/2011

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I have worn clothing too small. While I was pregnant with my 5yr old, I was still with my ex-husband. We had no air conditioning in our house and it hit 85 deg outside, and in. I was wearing shorts that sat at my waste and a tank top where half of my prego belly hung out to go buy an air conditioner. I was so hot and miserable (I was about 6mnths pregnant) that I didn't give a flying rats ass if people were grossed out by my stomach. Although I had such a cute prego belly that people actually came up to me and asked to rub it and tell me how cute I looked. I wanted to beat them all with the air conditioner.

Christina - posted on 06/21/2011

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lol... Candi I had to go back to Walmart yesterday and not only did I see a mom wearing pajamas but all FIVE of her kids were in pajamas too.. it was 2 in the afternoon..Um and all but one of them was old enough to get themselves dressed...so there is no using the excuse of it takes too long to get everyone ready.. it's just lazy and you are teaching you kids to be lazy ...

Candi - posted on 06/20/2011

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Spandex is a bad invention. Its the worst thing. I also hate teenagers who wear super skinny jeans and make their legs look like toothpicks. I hate seeing young girls who are allowed to wear shorts that show the bottom of their butts hanging out. Thats tacky and trashy. And of course, the Wal-Mart thing. I swear there is a rule that you have to wear pajamas to shop there. I have never gone in public in my PJs. I swear I have seen them in PJs, slippers and their hair hasn't been brushed in a week! Come on people, wake up and have a little self-respect!

Ambrosia - posted on 06/20/2011

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I think that how she looks is her biz and her problem. It seems odd to talk ill about a complete stranger's apperance on a public parenting forum? Obviously the experience was awkward at best... so forget about it and move along.

Shannintipton - posted on 06/20/2011

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I personally like the moo moo look myself. Or those tee shirts that have the bikini on them. I look soooo good. My mom hates those shirts. Hey that is my lingerie. A girl has to have something.

Brie - posted on 06/20/2011

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lol i know i posted but some of these posts reminded me of a girl i went to school with.. she had a "pregnant belly" (she wasn't pregnant) and she bought pants that fit her hips.. but not over her gut so she wore her pants with the entire fat roll hanging over top but her shirts were long enough to cover unless she bent over and you saw crack or leaned and her gut hung out lol!

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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Agreed. But I'm even disgusted and embarassed if someone is anorexic skinny and doing it. It's just nasty. That's it.......... we should make our own clothing line called NASTY and make millions off of these people.............

Stifler's - posted on 06/19/2011

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I just don't understand how it's embarrassing to be size 16 or more but they think it's NOT embarrassing to wear clothes that look ridiculous?! I swear that is the main motivation for this look, being ashamed of being a bigger size and refusing to buy it.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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yeah baby........ ass crack fat meat mmmmmmmmmmmm we should have been onto this 'secret to being sexy' sooner

Stifler's - posted on 06/19/2011

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that's like my sister. she weighs 90kg but claims to be size 14 even though I CAN SEE THAT HER BRA DOESN'T FIT she just doesn't want to be size 16 and wear the right size clothes.

Donna - posted on 06/19/2011

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omg that sounds like my sister in law. size 16, bends over and you see a nasty ass crack, she likes to wear these tank tops where her fat just hangs out the bottom and her tits damn near flop out the top, Its soo damm disgusting

Jayce - posted on 06/19/2011

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I hate spandex on anyone. There should be a law against wearing it in public. And why do people insist on doing their shopping in the swimsuits? They don't even cover up. I don't understand that one.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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What cracks me up probably the most is the girls who are perfectly a GOOD weight. That squeeze into jeans too small and get that muffin top that makes them look fat?! Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Amanda - posted on 06/19/2011

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My 3 yr old loves pointing it out by screaming mummy I can see that ladies bum at the top of his voice.

I hate it when people wear clothes that are obviiously too small, why the hell would you do that. I'd have trouble squeezing myself into the next size down. I have known people that have done it though and my god they look ridiculous

Shannintipton - posted on 06/19/2011

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I wear a burka.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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Heck, i'd laugh and say THATS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DONT TAKE CARE OF yourself kids!!!!!! lol

Karen - posted on 06/19/2011

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Yes and it makes me even more mad when my kids notice it. We were at walmart and saw a bigger lady that had her pants pulled down. it wasn't just crack, It was cheeks and all. A man walking in white strech shorts (no underwear), and the boobs. What's worse is it's usually crowded so it's not like it's easy to just pull them away. And it's even harder to get their heads to turn away from it. I was so tempted to just continue letting my 7yr. old yell right by the people "Mommy why don't they pull their pants up!?" But it would probably do more harm to my child than embarass these people enough to do it. Most people these days do it and have the "You don't like it, don't look attitude".

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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OH AND I HATE THE BUTT CRACK THING TOO omg my co worker was a size 5 and it looked like a childs crack everytime she bent over... ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/19/2011

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-Stopped to laugh her butt off at 'I was at walmart'- First mistake! Omg that store is insane huh? I was just in there yesterday for the first time in over a year (had to buy pregnant fat streatchy pants and guess who specializes in those!!!!!!!! :) anyway, some lady almost ran into my open car door because she didnt want to wait for me to close it. While I was trying on pants my boyfriend complained that none of the 3 women in the changing room area moved stuff they had piled on a bench that is supposed to be for customers to give him a place to sit. And of course, the attire.......... it never fails. There's always someone to laugh at. But heck, it's getting bad everywhere now a days. Even Target, my boyfriend and I laugh often. But walmart is its own breed of people. Yikes

Katherine - posted on 06/19/2011

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Oh that is sooo gross on so many levels. Even skinny bitches doing it with their tramp stamp.

I hear you about shoving yourself into something 5 sizes to small. There was a picture of a lady at Wal-mart on youtube wearing a tank and she had back boobs!

Stifler's - posted on 06/19/2011

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ROFL I can't stand anyone wearing clothes they have clearly calculated their size wrong in. Especially jeans which are 5 sizes too small no matter how *hawt* they think they are it looks wrong.

Brie - posted on 06/18/2011

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lol.. i get what your sayin... i'm the same way lol... its kind of like the stars who where the plunging v-neck dresses that plunge to their waistline and the biggest thing sticking out are their ribs and have nothing whatsoever to show off!! people have issues!!!

Amanda - posted on 06/18/2011

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I know I hate that too. And it's not just bigger people that do it either. I don't like seeing it all hanging out on anyone while I'm shopping and especially when I'm eating.

And the butt crack thing??? I don't care how good your arse is, I don't wanna see it

Amanda - posted on 06/18/2011

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I know I hate that too. And it's not just bigger people that do it either. I don't like seeing it all hanging out on anyone while I'm shopping and especially when I'm eating.

And the butt crack thing??? I don't care how good your arse is, I don't wanna see it