Kelsey - posted on 02/03/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
i just got engaged last weekend to my boyfriend of almost 4 years and father of my child i am going to be 20 soon and have been with him since i was 15.5 and we had a kid just b4 i turned 17. I have since told my father of our engagment and he was sort of happy at first. we never really had a great relationship but now everything is begining to surface.
i had msged him on fb saying that things needed to change between us because i didnt like how they were. my daughter doesnt call him gradnpa she calls him by his first name and i dont like it one bit.
in the msg i got back he said he was fine with th way things were and didnt want to be called grandpa not now not ever.
when i asked him about my wedding he said he was fine with paying to help out with the reception as long as my moms side wasnt goj ng to be there. he told me him and his family were going to have a seperate reception for me and hi soon to be husband and his famidly but my dad and his father want nothing to do with mi mom because she has complained to her and my dads friends about him never paying child support for me and my sister growing up.
i just think this is fucken stupid as shit its my wedding and its got nothing to do about them or their problems with my mom and her family! i just dont know what to tell my dad in a way to make him see things from my point iv tried and gotten nothing but neagtive feedback! im just so broken over this :(