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my ex husband .....

Danyell - posted on 06/22/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )

My ex husband what a dipshit ! - sorry for the language but really now ok he was my highschool sweetheart, got prego at 17 married him at 18 divorced what like 6 months later.... and have had nothing but problems with him between us having a child together and stuff and him just never making life easy it's always a fight- he then got married to the girl i caught him in bed with -and had a kid with her, oh now they just finalized their divorce - him now hes got 2 kids and 2 divorces under his belt and would you believe he wants to try to talk to me and make things work and act like were back in highschool again oh moms what do i do when this man is making me crazy

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Danyell - posted on 06/24/2010

you guys are all the best thank you for your support

Kianne - posted on 06/23/2010

U deserve better!

Danyell - posted on 06/23/2010

i dont even get child support i dont want it , I know that I can do it by myself and so I do , He can pay for whatever when he has spencer and all do my own stuff. His money does nothing for me :)

Carolee - posted on 06/23/2010

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Tell him that, other than child support, he can stuff his ideas of having anything to do with you up his ass.

Danyell - posted on 06/23/2010

I agree I want nothing to do with him i just didnt know what to do about the situation, Im amazed over my bf whom which I will marry and he wont cheat on me :) but thanks ladies

Kate - posted on 06/22/2010

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Sounds like he's just lonely since he's newly divorced and turning to you because he thinks it's the easiest route for him to get 'some'. Seems like he'll just use you until the next victim comes along and it'll be "thanks for the fun, see you later when l screw up this relationship." Give yourself some time. Before long you'll find someone worth investing your heart and time with.

Katherine - posted on 06/22/2010

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Language is not an issue here :)

Men are assholes, not all, but most. They like to push your buttons ESPECIALLY if they are still emotionally involved. If he cheated I would tell him where to go, but that's just my opinion.

Aura - posted on 06/22/2010

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Do you still love him or have you moved on? If you still love him, I think that it is completely up to you. Did you enjoy your relationship together? What caused the separation? You don't have to answer me, just yourself. If you've moved on and are over him, tell him that he missed his chance with you but you won't get in the way of his relationship with his child.

Best of luck, it sounds like a sticky situation!