Amanda - posted on 11/17/2011 ( 12 moms have responded )
I have been having issues with some of my sons behaviour for a while and over the last year he has got worse.
I understand he is only 3 and that he is pushing his bounndaries but he is quite extreme with some things and my 2 yr old doesn't behave like this.
I got to the point in October where I couldn't cope with him and went to see a doctor for the second time about helping me deal with his behaviour. What shit me was the fact that both my in laws and hubby told me it was my fault he behaves they way he does, that I am over reacting and need to deal with it on my own. They refused to speak to me about it for a week afterwards. Bearing in mind I have no family of my own to turn to and these people are supposed to be my support.
Anyway I was referred onto a behavioural specialist because my son is displaying all signs of ADHD and he needs to be assesed. Again all my fault.
The appointment is on the 28th of this month and hubby has said that the appointment is a waste of time and money and doesn't want me to take my son. Apparently I don't do enough with him and I need to sit down and spend the whole friggin day giving him one on one attention. For fucks sake, seriously??
The appointment will be a waste of time if no-one is willing to work with me, and do the things that need to be done with him.
It's soooo frustrating, what I want is for everyone to disappear, leave me to sort my son out on my own.