Ashley - posted on 12/14/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
My husband is a great man... normally. Lately I am wishing he would see that at 8 1/2m pregnant I need HELP and lots of it. I am sore! I am tired! I chase around 2 boys everyday for 12hrs and when he gets home he wants to relax. I get that he is tired too but I am shouldering the whole load. Things are falling apart and he comments and says I need better time management. I cry after these "conversations". I tell him frequently that before I got pregnant (even for alot of this pregnancy) I took care of the house and cleaning but now my energy is 0 all the time. I would think he would want me to rest before the baby comes and help out a little in the stuff I cannot do. Like sweeping vaccuming AND washing the floors. if I do one room at a time he says I am half assing it. and if I mention my back is killing me in anyway he says it is just 9 months and his is always (he is a framer/drywaller) so I get he is sore too but I mean c'mon give a little sympathy to the woman carrying 60lbs excess! I am a great housekeeper generally but I mean this is pathetic that he can assume I will be able to continue this when I am about to pop!