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Lacye - posted on 11/15/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )

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So my sister calls me this morning and asks me to take her to her doctor's appointment (she has rheumatoid arthritis) in Jackson, which about a couple hour drive, because our oldest sister wasn't able to take her because she had to work. I had no problem with it so I told her ok. I called my husband to tell him what was going on and he gets pissed because I'm going to do it. He said his opinion doesn't matter to him anyways and I was going to do it anyways so I shouldn't have told him just go ahead and do it. He is so freaking jealous of my family it's not even funny. He acts like I shouldn't do anything for my family. He sits there and argues with me about it because I don't mind helping out my sisters. I love them to death, they have done so much for me so why shouldn't I help them. I told him flat out he needs to get over it. I'm not going to tell my sisters no because he wants to act like a child.

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Lacye - posted on 11/15/2011

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It's because they are penis heads Emma. Plain and simple. lol

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

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Why do they care it's not like they have to do anything.

Becky - posted on 11/15/2011

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Yeah, my husband gets a little bent out of shape when I help out my youngest sister too. Like the other day, I babysat her daughter while she was at school. Her brakes had gone on her vehicle, so she had to take transit home and it's not really convenient to take transit to my house. So I picked her up at the train station and dropped her and my niece off at home. Dh was all, "Well, where was her husband? Why did you have to drive? blah, blah, blah!" I'd offered to pick her up, and it's only 10 minutes from here, not like I was driving across town!
And yet, when it comes to his family, he'll do anything, even at the expense of his own family. Eye roll!

Lacye - posted on 11/15/2011

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My sister is paying for everything so I know that's not the problem. He came from a family that won't talk to each other unless they want something from them. My family isn't like this. If it hadn't been for my oldest sister having to work, my middle sister never would have asked me. He thinks they are being like his family but they aren't. Both of my sisters would have done the same for me in a heart beat. As a matter of fact, they have before.

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

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That sucks what's his problem. Although I feel annoyed when we are always expected to pay for shit for his mum.

Carolee - posted on 11/15/2011

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My husband tried to pull that the other day because I "didn't talk to him" before I agreed to pick up my son from my mom's house. I hung up on him. After a while, he'll realize that he's overreacted, though. I hope your husband does, too.

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