Lacye - posted on 03/18/2011 ( 17 moms have responded )
I swear I hate some of the people in my town. They always automatically assume that just because I had a daughter with my now husband that we were married when she was first born. And when they find out that we weren't they make snotty comments about how we should have been married first before we had a kid. Well excuse me bitch. It's not like I was planning on getting pregnant when I did. I wasn't even sure at that time if my honey and I were going to be a lasting thing. I don't get why people are so judgemental about people having kids but not being married. It's retarded. Just because we weren't married didn't mean that we didn't care about each other or that it was a "wam bam thank you mam" kinda thing. Hell, we did get married. Just not before our daughter was born. I wanted to make sure he was somebody that I could love and trust first. I take marraige very seriously, which is why it took so long for us to actually tie the knot.