You can blow it out your ear, my dear! : )

Stephanie - posted on 05/19/2011

Issue resolved via pm so I'm locking the thread. : )

Cali - posted on 05/16/2011

thought this was venting not debating, just kidding.... And to answer your question - YES!! Everyday!!

Stephanie - posted on 05/16/2011

I feel like I need to clear the air about what has gone on in this vent since obviously it took an ugly turn which led to assumptions and speculation, not to mention other posts.

This is not to rehash or address what has been said by others but to clarify what I have said.

@Loureen- I wanted to send this in a pm but I have either been blocked or it's a com fail bc there is no 'send message' button. I made this post after a trying few days in my real life and a few not so happy / ugly / unfortunate moments on com. The post was not meant to bait anyone, to continue an argument or to single out any one person. When I said "Another thing I don't get is when someone follows you from post to post saying things yet says YOU are the one with the problem. **Shakes Head**" I was not referring to you. Before you posted another person had posted and immediately deleted her post. THAT is what I was referring to since this was the 3rd of my posts that she posted to in an aggressive manner. When I made the post of "Am I living in the 50's" it was not a continuation of a prior PDHT thread but a thought that was sparked by it. Your post on the thread in PDHT didn't offend me at all and the only relevance it had to my post in DM was that it mentioned that this is not the 50's. That is the one and only thing and you weren't the only person who said that. You were not even in my thought process when I made this vent or when I made the comments in it that offended you. 90% of this vent was related to outside, real life aspects, namely my birth parents. It was never my intention for it to be taken personally by anyone or for it to be more than a laugh or a 'I have days like that, too' in the posts. There honestly wasn't that much thought involved in it. It was just a moment in time. As for the things you've said in this post, if that's the way you feel so be it. There is nothing I can do to change that and asking 'why?' would likely just lead to more bickering so I'll leave it alone.

I hope this clears up any misconceptions and assumptions about this post.

Mel - posted on 05/10/2011

thanks ... I might do that Vicki

Kate CP - posted on 05/10/2011

I think it's an invite-only group.

Vicki - posted on 05/10/2011

send a request to tah she's the admin if seriosuly interested.

Mel - posted on 05/10/2011

I can find it but no idea how to join.Doesntmatter :)

Vicki - posted on 05/10/2011

try and type the mosaic. not sure. stephanie do you know how?

Mel - posted on 05/10/2011

how do I find it?

Vicki - posted on 05/10/2011

just a group where we don't really debate but more hang and shoot the shit. had some growing pains for a bit but sorted. open to new members...need to request (set as pirvate).

Mel - posted on 05/10/2011

whats this mosaic Ive heard of it a bit on here....

Vicki - posted on 05/10/2011

stephanie not sure what the flack is about. I've been enjoing your posts on mosaic and appreciating as well the feedback you've been giving. glad you stuck around. if you need a break from some groups you know where you can always come chill and glad you have been.

now back to folicking in venting :)

Mel - posted on 05/10/2011

hahaha Stephanie just read this you crack me up. Ive read the thread in question and you know what I think :P Stand your ground girl

Nikki - posted on 05/10/2011

Steph your so polite, I would have titled it " you can blow is out your arse, my dear!"

Nikki - posted on 05/10/2011

uuuuuuuuuummm wow I have missed A LOT!
Referring to the OP, part of the reason I have had a little break, when you find yourself getting stressed in RL because of shit that's happening in cyber world, it's time to take a break!

Stephanie - posted on 05/10/2011

No offense taken...I feel the same way lol!!! ; )

Sneaky - posted on 05/10/2011

No offense Steph, but I am getting afraid to comment on your threads because they seem to keep spiraling out of control! And for no obvious reason!!!! Oy vah!

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Indeed. : \

Kate CP - posted on 05/09/2011

Awkward.

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Lol ok, hun. Take care.

Charlie - posted on 05/09/2011

I have no problem with you or anyone else for that matter , whatever is getting to you I hope you find some peace ...seriously , good day :)

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Oook Loureen. What ever your problem is I hope you get it worked out. I don't know what else to say to you.

Charlie - posted on 05/09/2011

Because I am the only one here who was on the thread you got upset about , you just so happened to post this after that thread ,.

Deflecting ? that is rich , haha !

Geeze I have no idea what the problem is either and I am not taking jabs ( exaggerate much ? ) , I made an observation , one many people have made , I wasnt insulting you but once again as predicted you are taking it personally .



Anyway it's been delightful *eyeroll*

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Loureen- I'm sorry, but why would you assume I was talking about you? Is my post fitting of your actions? Just to be clear, your assumption is incorrect.

That's right, you don't know me so why are you claiming to know my feelings and if I take things personally or not? I have no problem with debate, it's fun and it's healthy. I in no way would ever expect the world to agree with everything I say, that's silly. Nor would I take it personally if someone didn't. I have friends from all walks of life, friends with very different views from my own, it doesn't make them any less of a friend. If anything it adds much needed insight into things I don't understand and haven't lived.

But really Loureen, why ARE you taking jabs at me right now? I'm 100% ok with disagreeing and debating but what I'm not ok with is assumptions and insults. Because you had an opposing view on a thread should I say that "I just happen to not agree with you on one topic ...something I have noticed you dont like , in ANY topic . "? Was it really necessary to insult me? Yes, that I will take personally bc it's a direct insult on my character.

Look, I really don't know what the problem here is but I do know that it isn't mine. I don't know why you make so many assumptions about me but all I can do is say that you're very wrong. You've got it totally wrong. Maybe you're deflecting your own feelings? I don't really know what to think but it's clear that you've taken some sort of issue.

Keli - posted on 05/09/2011

yeppers,its like a sixth sense to me lol

Charlie - posted on 05/09/2011

Are you talking about me ?



Im not sure how you got that impression Stephanie , I disagreed with you in one post in a debating community , you took it way too personally sorry but I have no control over your emotions .



Stephanie just because someone is opposed to your beliefs in a debating community doesnt mean they dont like you , perhaps if you find it so hard to seperate your emotions from the debate then debate isnt really for you , Im not sure exactly what it is you want ...validation ? everyone to agree with you ? it doesnt work like that in debate , you seem to take major offence to at least one person in every debate ...



So yeah , i dont "not" like you , the idea is absurd , I dont even know you ,I just happen to not agree with you on one topic ...something I have noticed you dont like , in ANY topic .





And Im not following you around LOL Ive been apart of this group since Katherine created it and answer several threads , I answered this vent BECAUSE I do not have a problem with you and I have felt like you but once again you have taken it personally *sigh*

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Yeah I don't get it. If you don't like me just stop talking to me. It's pretty simple really.

Mel - posted on 05/09/2011

oh now Im not getting notifications so annoying. And oh that sounds familiar Stephanie but only from the old days for me like a few yrs ago lol =)

Stephanie - posted on 05/09/2011

Sometimes you have to just sit back and laugh and thank God you aren't in the shoes of the other sad, bitter indigent.

Another thing I don't get is when someone follows you from post to post saying things yet says YOU are the one with the problem. **Shakes Head**

Mel - posted on 05/08/2011

yesss hahaha

Sneaky - posted on 05/07/2011

ummmm . . .that would be everyday for me :o)

Charlie - posted on 05/07/2011

Yep I have days like that on COM and when i do I take a break from the whole forum .

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/07/2011

HELL YEAH! You are not alive if you do not have days like these!

Shannen - posted on 05/07/2011

Yeah i have those moments EVERYDAY!!! I never used to but they seem to be more of a constant in my life now.

Katherine - posted on 05/07/2011

Almost everyday!!! LMAO.

Shannon - posted on 05/07/2011

LOL there are days i just have to close my computer and walk away and IRL i have to put in my Ipod and drown in a book....You are not alone AT all lol

Stephanie - posted on 05/07/2011

Glad I'm not the only one lol! : p

Stifler's - posted on 05/07/2011

Yes! Some days I can't be bothered to come up with an answer to a thread on here and just want to be like... FOR FUCKS SAKE... and tell them all of the above.