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I've been dating for quite some time now. My kids ( 2 boys 10 & 4/ 2 girls 5 & 2) have been introduced to him as well. We just had our first Christmas together. He feels like the boys have not accepted him yet. He works shift work and the kids are with their dad (also a shift worker) 10 days out of the month. He has no children and never married. I want this relationship to work, just not sure how to make him comfortable. This dating thing is very complex after being married for so long. How can we all come together? Any ideas? The kids have never showed signs of being uncomfortable around him, they just seem not to care. Is this ok?