Dealing with a break up while pregnant

Samantha - posted on 07/14/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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How can i remain strong for my unborn daughter while pregnant being so stressed out because of her father.. we were together for 2 1/2 years.. then all of a sudden he been hanging out with his cousin who is a single party guy.. and started taking my baby father to clubs and introducing him to new females.. then i started to notice he was getting distant from me.. and now he has broken up with me and left me alone pregnant with his baby... i never take break ups easy.. especially not know.. i feel completely miserable, depressed, stressed, and lonely.. i have very few friends here.. i moved here 3 years ago and been with him pretty much the whole time i been living here and stood here just for him.. all my good friends n family is back in NY.. i been so depressed i haven't been eating much of anything and i know its not good for the baby and im very worried about it but i can't seem to stomach food right now.. i just want this feeling of this break up to go away he's doing perfectly fine with out me and moving on yet im stuck on him and hurting =( much needed advice thanks

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Solange Latisha - posted on 07/25/2013

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i am 18 and pregnant for my excommon-law husband. i caught him with another woman and left immediately. he wants me back but he will keep doing this. i need help staying away from him because i love him soo much but i know that he will hurt me and my baby more. what are sum of the tings i can do to help myself..............????????????

SABRINA - posted on 07/21/2012

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Im sorry your going thru this at this point in your life. Some men just dont get it, and others know that getting a female pregnant puts them in a position where they have leverage over her. I cant even begin to count how many girlfriends- even guy friends I know that have been thru or done the same thing. Whats most important is your unborn child. I know break ups are very hard to go thru, but you dont want to put your child in danger over an @$$hole. When you finally give birth you'll barely have time to even think about him. In my opinion the best thing to do is just go on with your life, dont even let him notice hes affecting you, even though he is. Chances are when that baby is born he'll come crawling back, and if he doesnt, then frankly he was never good enough for either of y'all in the first place. I hope you feel better and wish you the best of luck! I know its not easy.

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Leevee - posted on 05/05/2014

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. That was a pretty immature and hurtful move on your exes part. Be strong for yourself and your baby. Your baby needs you more than anyone in this world ever will. Focus on preparing for baby's arrival and keeping yourself healthy. Do you have family close by that you could go live with? Thats what I would do if I had the option. If not look into some programs that help expectant mothers, young families, and single moms. Things will get easier if you have support. Know that everything happens for a reason and although it may be hard now, things will get better. Keep your head up and I hope you feel better Samantha.

Shosana - posted on 10/31/2012

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I am going through something very similar at the moment. I am about 5 months pregnant and about a month ago my boyfriend and the love of my life left me. But he did not COMPLETELY leave, we are still sharing the same bed and each other (if you know what I mean). He said he would be "giving me a chance". Things were going oook.... I actually thoiught we MIGHT end up back together. Until lastnight when he brought up wanting to join the service and I did not give him the EXACT response he wanted. He than told me his mind was made up and there was no chance for us at all. He just does not think we are compatable and that's that. I am so heartbroken and distraught. I have no girlfriends, not even a car to get out of the house for a little while. I have no clue what to do and this feeling of my heart breaking is so bad it is scary. How are you doing, how did you get through this?

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