Maria - posted on 07/31/2009 ( 18 moms have responded )
We are in debt up to our eyeballs and my husband is on unemployment. He is considering joining the military to ensure that we will be okay. But we are going on our 3rd baby, and we are very close to the family. I can't imagine leaving the family, especially when the kids are so young. But I would surely go with him. I would like to know if this is a smart decision, and how others cope with leaving the family? Also, what should I do if he gets deployed?? I am so scared.