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Another Missed Miscarriage

Chantelle - posted on 06/29/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I need some advice on how to deal with this empty feeling, sadness and anger that i am feeling right now. I went for my 12 week scan on june 22/09 to find out once again that my baby's heartbeat stopped at 10.5 weeks. I was heartbroken. On September 12/08 I went for 12week ultrasound and found out the same thing no heart beat, then on Feb 21/09 i had a miscarriage at home. I had to have a D&C with all of them. I just don't now how to deal with the anger, saddness and emptiness. I have a wonderful husband that is very supportive,but still can't get over this feelings. They have told me that the last two miscarriages were just things that happen, but I am starting to believe that something is wrong and want answers from my doctor now. I think no matter what anser I get I will still have no satisfaction of feeling a lkittle better.

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Annette - posted on 07/08/2009

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I am so sorry! I completely understand what you are feeling. I went in for a 15 week check up to find out my baby's heart had stopped about 4 weeks prior (due to the size of my baby they said 4 weeks). I had to have an immediate D&C for my own health. It completely sucks, I know. I wanted answers too, I still do. It has been 2 years now and I still want the answers but I know I will never have any, which I still really hate. The only thing that I know is that my baby is safe in God's arms and that one day I will meet my baby. I know that doesn't help much now, but I did finally get to that place where I could accept it. It is ok to want answers and even look for answers. Your anger is normal, don't feel guilty about those feelings, you aren't doing something wrong. It is how you express your anger that you have to be careful with, but the anger its self if not wrong. I wish I had a magic wand that could make it all better for you. Please don't take offense to this... I will be praying for you. I know your heart is shattered right now, so I will ask God to hold you close and give you the comfort that you need. God bless you.

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