Jennifer - posted on 09/04/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
My daughter's real father has just gotten out of jail and now wants to talk with her. He hasnt seen nor talked to her since before her 2nd birthday. She will be 7 in Nov. I told his mom not yet but my feelings are to never let him contact her considering he is the one her roke off contact in the first place. He had several chances to see her before he went to jail when my daughter would spend the weekend at his mom's house but he never did. Is it wrong of me to feel this way? When the divorce was finalized in the parenting plan I have 100% responsibility and 100%parenting time, so it is my choice whether or not i let him contact her. I have not talked about him to my daughter and she has not asked about him in the past year. I dont want to ruin the relationship she is forming with my husband. He treats her like his own daughter.