Has someone ever called CPS on you out of spite? Have you called on someone? Why?

Jenn - posted on 03/21/2011 ( 66 moms have responded )

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While I think that CPS does amazing things in helping children get out of bad situations and such, I also think that way to many people call CPS on people when they have no real grounds to do so...People also use it as a form of revenge...Do you think there should be a penalty of some sort if someone calls CPS more then once on someone and nothing comes of it? Have you ever called CPS on someone? Why? What was the outcome?
I have personally had CPS involved in my life due to struggling with addiction a few years back (I am not over two years clean and CPS free, lol), however just recently I had CPS call me and ask me questions regarding something someone had reported. It was totally false information, not only that but far fetched, and I do not know who called, nothing came of it and it was dropped. There wasn't even a follow up visit. However, I couldn't help being angry and upset because I busted my #ss to turn my life around for my kids and I have two healthy, happy children who are safe and loved. I know people that are afraid to answer their doorbell because they are scared it will be CPS over some bs...I even had a friend kill herself over them taking her children and as soon as she died, they gave them to the dad, who is a drug addict. I know the system is far from perfect and their are exceptions to every rule, I just want everyone's opinions. Please do not post any mean comments or judgments, this is a place to share your opinion and obviously everyone has a different one:)

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Moon_lit_wood - posted on 11/20/2013

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may I ask, have you heard of anyone fighting CPS and winning?

Melissa - posted on 12/06/2012

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My brother and mother recently called CAS on me and made totally false accusations. I am a single mother of two as well. Fortunately, the CAS worker was able to tell that the report was out of malice when speaking with me, and contacting my childrens teachers. However, the emotional damage caused by my mother and brother reporting is unforgivable. It is so hurtful to feel like the people who are supposed to be supportive of you, are the same ones holding the knife to stab you in the back. I recently lost my job and went through a break up. I felt as if they were trying to push me over the edge, just to say she is the one with the problem, not us. CAS definately needs a better way too determine false accusations. Now I feel as if the school my children attend will always second guess me as a parent by CAS contacting them. My mother and brother totally tried to assassinate my character. I think parents who are victims of false accusations should have some sort of support group. All I feel now is hurt and betrayal. I feel like I cant trust anyone anymore. It also hurts me that because of their actions, that I will no longer be allowing my children to be around their uncle and grandmother. Anyone that uses my children as pawns to hurt me, is not thinking about my children's best interest.

Erin - posted on 10/25/2013

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Yes, twice I've had cps called on me out of spite. Both times a social worker came to my house, i had nothing to hide so i let them in and and they both said said "i can't tell you who called us, but i can tell you this is absolutely Ludacris for us to even come to your house because we can't find a single thing wrong. Sounds like a false allegation to me." I was like "i know right. Thank you." They couldn't tell me who called, but i already knew who was behind it. The person who did it was just mad because i wouldn't pay them money i didn't even owe! This person was my babysitter who is the most manipulative, money hungry witch, i just didn't know it until now. I obviously had to cut her loose and find a different sitter. She wasn't too happy about that, but did i care? No! She was constantly contradicting herself about how much she thinks i owe.. All i could say was "wait, didn't you JUST say......? " That's when she went totally berserk and started threatening me that if i don't do what she wants, she us going to call cps for pure revenge. Say whaaaaaaat! ! ! ? ? ?. She even said if i don't, things were going to get ugly. I DON'T OWE HER ANY MONEY! I already paid her. She's trying to confuse me and make me think I'm the crazy one. Well, I'm not! She also said "give me money or I'm going to get your kids taken away". So yes, i have had it done to me out of spite. Isn't that blackmail and/or extortion? She is trying to bully me but I'm not that easily intimidated. Question though: how can i get her to admit to blackmail or extortion without sounding suspicious?

Toni - posted on 02/01/2014

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I lived in a very small town for a while and the local corner store owners called CPS on my husband because we were the 'weirdos' of the town.
The lady said that my husband was a drug addict, an alcoholic and was violent towards me and our son.
We had our son stolen off us for over 3 months, during which time my partner and I had to do drug tests and my partner was forced to go to a mens behavioral class and see a psychologist AND psychiatrist.
The mens behavioral class told CPS that my partner had no reason to be going there and the psychologist and psychiatrist said that my partner had no mental disabilities at all.
CPS then went on to say that our house was filthy, we had 'a litter of kittens in the bathroom' (we had 3 male, desexed adult cats), that the building was 'unfit for an infant', so on and so forth.
While all this was going on, one of our friends in the same town was trying to get CPS involved with the father of her children, who was knowingly letting his 4 year old daughter be sexually touched by another man, and yet CPS said there was not enough evidence to do anything.

So, after all my experiences with CPS I do not have a rosy view of them. In my opinion they go for easy targets to justify their pay. They went after me and my husband because we look different from 'normal' people and because we are not violent or overly aggressive. But those people who are violent or aggressive they wont do anything about because it is too much of a risk to them.

Penny Lee - posted on 02/01/2014

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No disrespect to you, My mom & sister have been calling & making false accusations about me every since I told them there not my childrens mom I am they thought they was just going to tell me how to kids and I told them both sorry about youre luck im there mom and that's final,I never got a break from cps since. Excpecialy because my mom didn't raise us we did ourselves, & then she thought she was going to take mine & my husbands first daughter & raise her as her to try to fix mistakes that couldn't be fixed,UH UH she wasn't getting my daughter. not till she called my sick demented sister in to plot against me for 16 yrs & stole my life my soul my heart my babys.don't trust noone

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Nick - posted 2 days ago

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I called cps on my wife. I wouldn't necessarily say it was out of spite, but she was out drinking until all hours of the night most nights while I was out of town working. She left our kids with her brother, who isn't exactly a responsible adult. The cps investigation is terrifying her, and I feel terrible. I think she earned it, but she thinks there was nothing wrong with what she did. At first I thought a divorce was imminent, and then we tried to work it out. Now the investigation has started and she thinks I did it out of spite and hates me. I'm a terrible person.

Dmor - posted on 07/16/2014

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the person that called them on me and my two children new my mom was very sick and did not have much time to live my mom died 4 days ago 6 days before she died cps came out the person who called them on me wanted to add even more pain to my life and fear i went and picked up the report it said (fatality no) on every one of the allegations i think cps should let you know who called so you can file a law suite i mean if they do not do any thing then we should have a choice, we should have the rite to know so we can stay away from those who called on us, it should be up to us to tell cps to press charges or let us do it our selves and if we do not know who did call then we have not got the rite kind of privacy or peace through out our lives

Clarice - posted on 06/17/2014

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I am broken hearted. Someone called CPS on my son and daughter-in-law. I am being blamed for it as I am very close to my daughter-in-law and granddaughter. But my son hates us and won't let us near them or let us speak to them.

Clarice - posted on 06/17/2014

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I have only had to go to court one time to testify on behalf of a grandmother to get custody of her grandson. I supported my neighbor. Was it right to take the child away from his mom? Probably when she had to ask when was his birthday. (6 kids with 6 daddy's)

Charlotte - posted on 05/21/2014

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I have never called CPS on anyone, nor have I had them called on me, but I do have an opinion on the subject. First off I congratulate you on getting clean. That says a lot to me personally. My step daughters real mother unfortunately did not make that choice last year and lost all rights to her 4 children(other 3 from different father). My step daughter is turning 10 this month and she was the oldest with two sisters and a brother. I wish the system had been more strict and demanding on her during the 6 months of court hearings. I would rather have seen her decide to do whatever it took to be a good mom and keep her children than to not care and break their hearts forever. Its sad. Bless you.

Karla - posted on 05/21/2014

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Yes, I reported my child's teacher to the principal, got her in trouble, and she called CPS as a form of retaliation. Teachers as professionals, looking out for our children? yeah, right. Its scary to think of the other families she has tried to destroy and the ones yet to come when she is called out for unprofessional conduct. Did not even call a conference with me the entire year to address her concerns.

Dee - posted on 05/14/2014

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I am so sorry you are going through this Alicia...if I were you, I would re-establish myself and my situation. I believe you are in Canada and I am not sure about their rules or how they work, but if you could focus on your children, try to enrolll in college (if you don't have a degree) their is tuition for single parent which in our country it is called FaFSA. If you are working, continue to do so, if not, go get a good job, and find a care taker that is willing to wokr with the amount of money you can provide on a bi-weekely basis (make sure that they are certified or atleast you can trust). When you do this, you will be able to keep your focus and combat the bs they are throwing your way. More importantly, with the funds you are earning, set aside $30-50 a pay period for an attorney, because hind sight 20/20 with all the drama oneday your ex will try to get you for custody, but this time, you will be prepared for them. Oh and get an organizer calendar so that you can document any activity that someone else is doing to you. Documentation is key in the court system. Remember, never let your guard down at all!!! You have my support!!!!!

Dee - posted on 05/14/2014

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Oh wow, this gives me great encouragement to stay strong for my kids as well. I too have been a victim of falsely accused CPS cases. My son's father has done the same to get back at me because I ended a 12yr relationship from him. The first case, he stated that I punched my son in the eye, when in fact, he injured his eye from a fall on the steps. Then he alleged that I allowed my step-daughter to sexually abuse him. Which now is a best friend to the mom of the child he claimed was the abuser. Then the my step daughter mother claimed that I child abused my step daughters and also filed a protection order against me as well. So I feel your pain and understand completely what you are going through. It's been the will of God that has kept me sane and from whooping their a$$es. But overall, my husband and I are happy, healthy, and our kids loves us to death and at the end of the day, that's all that matter.

Ray - posted on 05/06/2014

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yeah i can relate right at the moment me and my girl friend have a little boy whom is the lite of are life, we are staying in a motel, the women next to us started coming around and it wasnt long befor she begain causing trouble with us daily i told her to stay the hell away from us. so just to cause us problem,. she contacted cps and told them a mouthful of lies. the police showed up scared my girl upset her then cps came.it is wrong what they do. anybody can call and tell them a lie and theyll investagate. it thats not right. nothing was ever done and we aint heard from them sense. but for that trouble maker next door i wish her the worst in life. she is a scumbag. if she was a man boy she would need a good dentist . people who do this type a stuff are losers.

Marion - posted on 05/03/2014

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My name is not important, but I am the grandmother of two grandsons ages are 12 & 10 they are beautiful in side and out, there Mother my daughter has a drug addiction on and off for the past 12 years, I have tried to make sure that they were always in good hands, however when she is on drugs she can be quite villent she will tell my grand sons that our family does not love them, There is a lot I can say about this, but to get to the matter she has just resentley called me on my job and told me that she was going to take her life "this is not the first time" she has been smoking Cush , and I told her that I was tired of trying to beg her to stop with drugs, but I never called CPS, however when she called me back about 2 min later she told me she was going to there school to take them with her so I called the school she had already checked one child out, Thank God I got there in time before she left with him, I don't know if she would have gone through but I can say this I HAVE NEVER BEEN SO SCARED, So CPS is involved now, And I have hired a lawyer to get temp custody of my grandsons, I can not put her feelings first any more, Scared Grandmother !!!

Larhonde - posted on 05/03/2014

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I am a mother who lost her five children behind people who kept calling in and they couldnt do anything ,i took drug test after drug test and past, ok now my two year old grabbed a owel of noodles off table and burned his self, i had just had a newborn who was two weeks and he was crying when i left the bowel sitting, i had not put any season, we went to doctor they said it was an accident, so they let us go home, well because of the other calls people made they removed my kids,, i had to go to cps court for over a year, i have to get my kids out of foster care and send to my hometown louisiana i want my kids home i never left my kids alone or neglected but because of false calls it look like i am a bad mom i really love my kids

Ranesha - posted on 04/27/2014

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some cps workers are just jealous,first off some dont have kids,of their own so how the hell,do they know about parenting?my kids were remove from me almost three years ago for me leaving my son in the house while i went outside to smoke a cigarette.i do understand why they were removed.i accepted the court orders as a result to at least get a unsupervised visits or custody back but did that happen no!why because the cps worker and all the other parties have conflict of interest.i believe her and my children father has an affair going on.maybe that explains why things went the way they went.now she has people harassing me because i appealed my case in the court of appeals.why she mad?least she know i"m ,determined.a psychological test was administered.i totally disagree with the results that were giving to me mild mental retardation.but nowhere in my school psychology test say that.can someone say a set up/lie.i've never been special classes for that.misconduct of the judge, for not having proper evidence to support their case.everything was based on hearsay due to the fact that they were all working together.even my court appointed attorney was against me but he acted as if he was on my side.Yeah right!

Don - posted on 04/25/2014

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my sister called cps on me and my wife as a revenge thing.I think there should be a penalty against anyone who uses cps as a revenge tool.

Alicia - posted on 04/07/2014

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I am going through this now. My sister, my brother and his in-laws decided that I was not raising my son correctly. So they called CAS (Canada's Version of CPS) and told them I was being neglectful. It was my worst luck that my son injured himself the night before they picked him up. They were suppossed to watch him. Instead they made arrangments behind my back and CAS was allowed to see my son without my permission. Me and my boyfriend were accused of abuse and they even contacted the police. I had to be questioned and so did my boyfriend, over a bruise appox 1 inch long on his side, that we think he got from toddling (he is walking quick early and getting into everything) and a bad diaper rash which I have repeatly asked the doctor for asstistance about. After being threatened, harrassed and not given any information for weeks on end, they have decided we did not abuse the child. My boyfirend is fed up, our relationship was fairly new when this happened and the stress of my family's harrasment and CAS has all but ruined it. To top it off I am pregnate again. I know I am lucky my case was resolved so fast, it only took almost 4 months, and it will take another 3 or 4 to intergrate him back into my home, but I do not trust my family and I am really hurt about having another baby with little support. To top it off, my violent ex-husband was accually given information about my case by CAS and he is asking for access. As well CAS expects me to keep in contact with my family, but I am frightened that they will do this again, and I will lose my children. Sorry for the long post, I need to vent.

Trisha - posted on 03/21/2014

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Dealing with 6 mons+ worth of CPS, and 6 calls during that time...I am in the middle of a custody case and it only started after my ex filed for full custody. He has no rules, no discipline and buys my daughter whatever to win her affection. Hes bound and determine to win at any cost including having my daughter write false statements also. He is teaching her to be evil and lie. It sickens me. I have 4 kids all together...2 grown and never dealt with them before all this. Luckily I am a paralegal with attorney connections everywhere! And I already knew I never had to let them in...I did...I took drug tests etc...but would never sign a safety plan. I told them if they had evidence of this bs then file a case...needless to say the investigation was closed at this point and I told them I was done talking to them. They were going to my daughters school, caught them lying to me about what accusations were made during the call and wouldn't let me see her written statement....they are guaranteed employment through cases and get mad when you won't sign papers...they don't like me. They showed up again today! A new person I told them I wasn't signing anything...I let them come in my house because I have nothing to hide, but that was it. I told them to file a case if they needed to because this would be the end of my contact with them....the cw wanted to re-hash all the other visits...I said look you have a file on them, go read it. I am not doing it again. I am about to take action to anyone who will listen before it tears my family apart emotionally.

Gary - posted on 03/20/2014

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I would start writing letters to my Congressman. Explain the situation and also make sure they understand that this organization has too much power, and works on assumptions. There is no one to oversee them, and we, the people, suffer. I, in turn, am going to start writing letters also. My child is grown and has his own family, so this is just because it is another government agency left unchecked.

Pokrov - posted on 03/18/2014

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A special petition is developed in order to help the families whose children have been taken away due to falsified accusation by the SPC (Child Protective Services) employees. As more and more families become victims of false accusations against them, we believe that such a petition is necessary in order bring justice in the country. In order to have working material, social service employees need more children to show the government that they need money. Following that goal, they falsify the accusations and take children from normal families. This may happen to any family. The petition will require the corrections in the law so that families and their children can be protected from the crime committed by social service employees.
http://forum.helpwithsituation.com/phpbb...

Brenda - posted on 03/16/2014

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I called CPS and made a report after I witnessed a two year old run into the road with a truck coming and the mom slapped the ten year old for "I told you to watch your sister". I will say, I did not see the actual contact. What I saw was the arc of the drawback and the hand move forward followed by what sounded like a gunshot when contact was made. The ten year old never made a sound. Myself and another adult witnessed this. This was the THIRD time I have seen this mother slap this child, once on the face and once on the arm, neither of which had the force behind the slaps like this one did. The previous two slaps were in the grey area of parenting, something I personally would not chose to do but is still within the realm of arguable parenting rights. I contacted the organization we are both a part of, they said it was parenting but if I felt I witnessed something that we are in a mandatory reporting state. Four individuals, every one of them, advised me to report it. So, I made the report. And that organization that said it was parenting? Promptly contacted the parent and let her know that there was an incident and they wanted to investigate it. Then a week later CPS started their investigation. They have a lot more information than what I gave them. But because the organization contacted her before any of this, several things happened: 1) The daughter was immediately coached on a number of subjects, 2) Instead of the original incident that caused the problem, it is now that I am out to get her 3) Her husband wants revenge not only against me, but my entire family 4) Many of the adult volunteers in the organization have picked a side (too bad so many of them were not there, did not witness what happened, and decided to make it about me. I would still make the report because what I saw was abuse, it clearly crossed the line and I have witnessed similar behavior on two other occasions.

Shannon - posted on 03/10/2014

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I,too, came across this kinda late... But I am dealing with CPS right now and have been for the last 2yrs. I have attended parenting classes, submitted to drug tests, as well as my son doing drug tests, (he's 15, and has type 1 diabetes, but I should note that he's a brittle diabetic melanin his blood sugar jumps often) and with him being a hormonal teenager the blood sugar jumping is made worse. Last year I had finally gotten them to close our case, only to have it reopened 1 mo later by my sons doctor after we had a nasty disagreement in his office. (He actually told CPS HE DIDNT LIKE OUR ATTITUDE!) so open and shut malicious call, right? Hell no! It's been on, and on, and on! Nothing we do is good enough! They nitpick us to death. They've brought me and my son(and the rest of my kids) to our breaking point and if our love wasn't strong it would've been to the point of giving up! No bad drug tests from either of us, they show up at his school, we get treated differently by the school, and for things that are normal to teenagers! Other kids in his school have bad grades, get in trouble etc. you should also know my child isn't a bad child, it's just every little thing is now considered bad... Almost in an attempt to keep us in their grip.. They charge my sons insurance for something called in home health connect visits.. And let me tell u everything is "in home" our home isn't ours anymore. My kids come first- always we have great relationships. We are just close to being broken, please ANY advice you have for us would be appreciated. Is there anything I can do?

Laura - posted on 02/25/2014

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I just came across your post. A little late, but still... Yes, I fought cps in 2012 and won. I have 3 boys who at the time of the call were 8, 6 and one month. My absolute saving grace was NOT signing the voluntary "safety plan". Every attorney I found told me to just do what they say, and it didn't feel right, so I fought them myself in court. Because I did not sign they were never able to take my kids away. I went through eight months of stress before they took me to court to try to order me to go to all sorts of classes, mental evaluations, and drug testing. Ultimately, the judge ordered them to stay away from me and denied all their requests. They never once stepped into my home because I stood my ground and didn't sign.

Kyle - posted on 02/12/2014

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i have been in the cps system for the last four and a half years and don't deserve to be there my dad called on my mom just to get us taken away and it worked the cps case workers are full of shit and deserve to all get fired i have put up with their shit for four almost five years i know the game luckily i am back home with my mom but that is the worst thing that can happen to you. what ever you do if they contact you i suggest you run to alaska or something because there is a 95% chance that your kids will get taken away. I'm so sorry if I've offended anyone out there but i know the game band i know the system thankfully i got a good case worker right at the end and was put back where i belong, with my mother there is nothing more that makes children commit suicide that them being taken away from their mom i even had those thoughts just be careful and don't associate your self with people that will call out of spit and not when the child actually needs help. please if your reading this and considering calling out of spite as a victim of that i begging you not to

Wishingstarkathleen - posted on 02/05/2014

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I just need to know how do I find out if someone did call on me im a single mother living with my parents and I have a alomost 2 yr old baby girl...if this is bs id still want to get to the bottom of it.. I live in mi and I am 29 almost 30 yrs I never had issues with cps and done everything I can for my daughter, any help would be greatly appericated
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Chet - posted on 02/01/2014

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I think it's pretty rare for people to call CPS for purely vengeful reasons. People do contact CPS and report situations that don't need to be reported, but more often I think it's because they confuse differences in parenting with bad parenting. That, or they just don't know and want to err on the side of caution because nobody wants to be the person who thought about calling CPS, didn't, and then the child turned up seriously hurt or dead.

We live in an inner city neighbourhood and know a lot of people who are terrified of CPS. I know someone who had her children removed unfairly and knowing what I know now, I would be very careful about involving CPS in a situation. People who haven't dealt with the system often don't realize how hugely disruptive and upsetting a CPS investigation can be.

If there were consequences for unfounded calls to CPS good people would be afraid to call though, and kids in very bad circumstances wouldn't get the help that they need. The best thing is for social workers to be caring and well trained and to be able to dismiss bogus calls quickly. If people call repeatedly they should eventually get flagged as somebody to ignore.

Penny Lee - posted on 02/01/2014

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Im sorry I just spnt 2 1/2 hrs pooring my hart out to you my mom manupilated thereway into my lif & took all for of my babys im still not the sam and its ben 10 yrs.i just didn't know how to write to ya. dang lol

Sara - posted on 01/31/2014

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I don't think the fight is with CPS if their findings are nothing valid then leave it alone...if they keep getting more reports and nothing shows up they will gets tired of the person reporting and handle it on their end...so eventually the person reporting false accusations will be handled if you say you've consulted with an attorney. :)

Dianna - posted on 01/31/2014

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I have called CPS on my ex daughter in law because she was living with a meth dealer that had a lab in his truck , also heard that she was using meth too, before CPS even started the case the boyfriend was in jail and my ex daugher in law she was pulled over by police and arrested for driving under the influence of drugs possession of methamphetamine and possessionof paraphermalia. My son went to court and got custody of his 2 children , she also has a 2 year that belong to another man .CPS check her out and find her a fit mother and closed the case, she stay in jail for3 months and my son got her out on house arrest for the children , within a month she took her 2 year old to another boyfriends house to get meth and cut her angle bracket off , after her first arrest she was going to get off house arrest in 5 months when they rearrested her she only got 7 extra days and out of jail again , I was so angry with CPS that I called the case worker and ask her what part of being a good mother was she when the Meth she was taking was getting into her children pores also her house was beyond filty , all I was told she did not like me telling her how to do her job, I said that is not what I said at all because she did not do her job at all she endangered my grandchildren and I hung up on her , now this really did surprise me because I thought she was a good mother but when I allowed her to spend her house arrest at my home , I could not believe the why she treated the children , they did nothing to her for having her 2 yr old with her when she broke her house arrest agreement and was at a known drug dealer house , what is wrong with this county ! My son is afraid to let her even see the children without supervision , because she could leave with them so far she has only got a slap on the hand scarey !I do hope she goes to rehab and gets her life straighten out for her and her children

Sara - posted on 01/31/2014

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I have a situation with my sister reported me to CPS when her and her husband continued to talk crap about my boyfriend to the whole family..to include church members. On Fathers Day at their home my boyfriend finally after many times of them being disrespectful told them off! They didn't like that someone would stick up for themselves...we aren't the first people they've been disrespectful to and think their superior. Was about week later from argument I was contacted by CPS with accusation that boyfriend offered drugs to my nephew while at my sisters home, and that they needed to investigate my home to make sure my son 13 was ok, I said sure come by anytime? Can you say Psycho....and if your wondering my boyfriend does smoke marijuana and is legally carded to do so, and NO he didn't offer drugs to kids, also the kid he so called offered isn't even my sister's son, at which his Mom said it was false. My boyfriend was very open to the family from the beginning about who he is, and this was used against him to be spiteful. So CPS of course found nothing...Then the drama continues. During the year I completed divorce from 15 years of marriage, laid off from work, and lost my home, resulting in my Son having to go live with his father in another state. This was heartbreaking enough....8 months later first time my son comes to visit for Summer we have car accident in which DUI driver hit us from behind at 100 mph my boyfriend (now fiance) driving, son in front passenger, and me in back seat passenger side (3 months pregnant with baby) I was badly injured and spent 3 days in trauma unit. First chance my sister gets to see my son was at hospital next day of accident...offers to take him home with her, at which I said NO he has to stay with my parents until I get released. So her and her husband said well let us get him lunch, and well take him there. I gave her one more chance to make things right....What do they do first chance get him alone start asking him if my man does drugs around me and my son...if I was doing drugs while pregnant...I'm so disguisted I was in the hospital hoping my unborn was ok, and injured.......THIS IS SICK! I told her she is to never contact us or be around my children ever again...never can trust her again! Been months now and she emailed me recently...saying she's happy for us that were having baby girl soon...like I'm due any day now. I didn't respond as she's is just fishing to start crap again...I'm at a loss as to why she has chosen to do these hurtful things and why cant just be happy for us leave us alone! I have to ban her from hospital as don't want her to ruin the precious day were waiting for our girl to arrive. I think when false accusations are reported to CPS we are now victims of report, and should be able to file something to protect our families, children from being exposed to this hurt!

Amanda - posted on 01/24/2014

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So for some reason not sure exactly why, but my cousin has been making nasty comments to me about how I don't need my kid but the thing is me and my fiancee(her dad) both have a job, we take care of her(other than when we are at work but his mom takes care of her then) but I had to block her off Facebook because she kept harassing me saying that my daughter was ugly and being very disrespectful to me, well after I blocked her she wrote my mom on Facebook telling her someone needed to call social services on me because I was to immature(although she is the one who wrote me first being very disrespectful) well after that she made a new Facebook just to write me and say she was going to go to the social workers and tell them that she had messages from a year ago saying that my fiancée was beating me and our daughter(which is not true because if it was I would have more common sense to call the cops on him)! Do any of you have advice for m

Amanda - posted on 01/24/2014

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So for some reason here lately my cousin has been threatening me with calling social workers on me for no reason at all! Out of nowhere I hadn't talked to her in like 8 months she writes me a message on Facebook calling me names && talking about my fiancee(which is my daughter and sons dad) well I blocked her after she started talking about my daughter, well after I block her she writes my mom stating that someone needed to call social services on me bc I was immature and didn't need kids(keep in mind she is the one that was writing me first calling me names and being disrespectful to me) well after my mom wrote her back stating that I was an amazing mom and that I done everything in the world to make sure my babies were very well taken care of she(me and my fiancée both are working) then makes a new Facebook just to wrote me to tell me she had messages from a year ago stating that my fiancée was beating me and my daughter(which I know for a fact that it is false bc I have more common sense than to let a man beat me and my baby) do any if you have advice for me bc I have never had this happen or had anyone threatening to call them on me?!?

Nicole - posted on 11/15/2013

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There definitely should be consequences for people calling CPS with false complaints!!! But there isn't which sucks...I moved onto a street that literally 1 family lived on & 1 of them used to live in the home I bought so because they wanted me outta there so they could get the house back so family would be their neighbors. Well I wasn't going anywhere so they started calling CPS with false "issues" I love being a mother & would do anything for my kids. I would never let them live without heat or water-as was 1 of the calls CPS got from them. Even though I explained this to CPS who realized it had to be true because every time they came out to investigate a complaint it was always unfounded because it was never true But they said they have to come out & investigate every single call they get regardless if unfounded every time & from the same people every single time. I always assumed CPS was there for kids who are being abused physically, sexually or even emotionally. Kids who aren't being fed etc...HOW UNTRUE THAT IS! That's what they should be there for but instead I swear they are there just for the check. Each child they have on their service they get a check for which is why they have open cases with families that just don't need it. WHAT HAS THIS WORLD COME TO? They have too much damn power which is not true of every county but is true of many. They lie & truly ruin not only families but lives ITS PATHETIC! Funny part is almost all case workers are not mother's themselves so they what go by a book? I will hopefully be changing laws in the coming future because to see kids taken from a parent & given to another parent temporarily who is truly a Toxic person & then CPS closes the case because they don't wanna deal with the mess they've made for the most important person THE CHILD. Doesn't feel like we live in America with things like this happening all the time

Bertha L - posted on 08/24/2013

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Bertha Richardson posted on 08/24/2013 cps and the judge stole my children an i haven never commited any crime what so ever i am a innocent mom with a learning disability i am a good mom who has got caught up in a bad bad situation with lying people my ex drug addicted and abusive to me an my children they got me looking like the total criminal i am one people up against a wall of sharks eating and attacking me bit by bit till nothering left of me they have set me up big time got me look bad how can i defend myself against those sharks accused me of abuse abuse and neglect of my children i live in the city i am from the south being here is a living nightmare you myself don't deserves this treatment? my children has been adopted without my knowledge i found out own my own i'am being deprived of my children ex husband evil mom is a bitch she want let me have any contact with biological child that woman never did a dam thing in my children's life never but the court gave my children to that criminal scaming family my heart is so broken it is hell get help i'am a good mom we innocent people are suffering through hell ?hope thin getbetter God bless us all good luck

Megan - posted on 04/09/2013

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HI I am getting threats from my fiances ex gf and her family saying that i hit there daughter in the back of the head during time out which I didn't and wouldn't do such a thing. There also bringing up stuff like im doing drugs, alchol and abusing children and there saying they will call cps so i can get my son taken from me. what can i do??? iv asked for these emails and threats to be stopped but they continue they get on different accounts searching me out just to make threats.

Ashley - posted on 03/20/2013

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Yup, I got called on when my son was 3 and I had just kicked out a toxic roommate. She had stayed with me for two months when her parents were locking her out, and had no where to go. She agreed to pay rent and I only had a couch for her, but let her enjoy the living room. She quickly changed into a different person even though I've known her for 5 years. She got fired from her job, invited men from internet dating sites over for one night stands, and was just plain gross. She was refusing to pay rent for January, and had been stupid with some gang guys who then stole her car. Which had mail including my home address, and my key to my home. That was the last straw, no more help from me, and putting my son through that! I kicked her out. I had a CPS worker come exactly a month later, I knew she had called. She told them I was an alcoholic and smoked pot, and I had a stash in my kitchen drawer, and how my son's father had been to rehab the year before. I was hurt. Luckily my friend works in CPS and helped me, she looked up what had been written and that it had been submitted at 3am a few days after I had kicked her out. I was so angry, she knew what a good mom I was and how hard I tried to better my son's life. I was a single mom so I was pushed to my limits when this happened. Luckily my son's father was great, it actually brought us a little closer. CPS was mean, they had been going to the wrong address ( stupid chic couldn't even remember where she had stayed for months), and was very frantic to see my son and check me out. It really hurts being a good mom and somebody passing judgement on you that you are an unfit parent. They came for the interview and I was nervous even though I had nothing to hide, my son's father was there, and we had a nice time with her. She did the mouth drug test on us, and then left saying she would call us in a few days. I never heard from CPS again. It jolts you, it is a rude awakening that this can happen. I scoured the internet for information, and talked to friends who had gone through CPS. It happens, people are stupid, and vengeful. She knew how much I loved and adored my son, yet she tried to get him taken from me. Jealousy I suppose. I will never know. This was three years ago and thankfully I have never seen her again. If I do, she better run! Don't call CPS on good parents- it is a waste of time.

Heavyn Sunshyne - posted on 03/08/2013

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Our Stories Are Alot Alike.... I Feel Your Pain.. Stay Stong And Do Whats Best For You And Your Kids... God Bless ♥

Heavyn Sunshyne - posted on 03/08/2013

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I Am Sadly Going Through A CSD Case Rite Now As I Sit Here.. Sadly I Myself Grew Up In And Out Of The System & Always Said I Would Be Better Then My Family When I Got Older & If I Ever Was Blessed With Being A Mother!
... And Sadly Thanx To My Psycho Ass Ex Husband I Divorced Years Ago After He Tryed Killing Me A Month After Losing My Second Born Son To Pre-Term Labor.... Well He Decided That When We Went To Court Back In Jan 2012 To Update The PO Order As I Have Done Ever 3 Years Since 07. & After Him Violating My PO Order 4 Times & Being Released From Prison Early Into A Sober Living House Run By My Very Own Brother.... & Top Top It Off He Was Rite Down The Street... WTF REALLY?

Well He Didn't Like The Fact That We Had Same Judge From The Beginning Of All This BS.. And That The Judge Didn't Like The Fact That (He Being My Ex. Had Not Been Nor Even Tried To Be Involved In My Boyz Lives) In Over 2 Years I Mean Really Not Even A Card Letting Them Know That He Was Even Thinking Of Them... :0( & Then He Found Out That We Were Gonna Be Relocated By Vitim Witness & He Wasn't Having That... Cause NOT BUT 3 DAYS LATER WAS THERE A CSD WORKER AND 4 BINTF Officers & Not But Seconds After Opening The Door To Leave And Go Food Shopping Did I Find Myself In A Full On Raid & My 4th Amendment Rights As Well As My Boyz 14th Amendment Rights Being Completely Violated ALL ON FALSE REPORTS GIVING TO THEM BY MY SNITCH OF AN EX HUSBAND AND THIS ALL BECAUSE HE WAS MAD AT WHAT THE JUDGE HAD SAID TO HIM BUT DAYS B4.....

So Now As I Have Worked My Ass Off Over This Last Year And Even More Then They Have Asked Of Me.... AS MY EX HAS DONE NOT ONE THING THEY HAVE ASKED OF HIM AND HAS FOUND HIMSELF BACK BEHIND BARS SEVERAL TIMES IN THIS LAST YEAR.. (3 TO 4) AT LEAST 1 Of Them Being For Robbing A Bank And Then A Month Later Goin Back To Same Bank To Try Again... And For Some Reason Has To Drag This Out As Long As He Can Cause Now He's Contesting Them Terminating His Services... AS IF HE WAS USING THE DAM SERVICES TO START WITH REALLY?


IDK HOW PEOPLE CAN RIP A HAPPY FAMILY APART AND TRY TO BREAK THE MOM DOWN AND CALL HER A LAIR AND WHAT NOT OVER AND OVER.. YET I HAVE PROVED TIME AND TIME AGAIN THAT I AM A GREAT MOM AND NOTHING IN ANYWAY AS TO WHAT THEY ARE THINKING.. AND THAT MY BOYS AND I DESERVE TO BE BACK TOGETHER.... AND SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN PUT THROUGH THIS BS TO BEGIN WITH......

IF ANYONE HAD A PROBLEM THEN CSD WOULD HAVE BEEN HERE LONG AGO SO WHY CANT THEY SEE THIS WAS ALL OUTTA HIS OWN LAME SPITT AND HE HAS SHOWN THEM ALL WHAT A LAME ASS HE IS THIS LAST YEAR.....

SO LET THIS BE DONE NOW PLEASE........


BEST WISHES TO ANYONE OUT THERE HAVING TO GO THROUGH THIS BS... I AM HERE IF ANY OF YOU SHOULD NEED SOME1 TO TALK TO OR MAYBE A LIL ADVICE JUST HIT ME UP K

THE NAMES AMBUR BUT YOU CAN CALL ME LILMAMABOND007

IF ANY1 HAS ANY INFO ON HOW ONE CAN STOP THIS MADNESS & STOP THEM FROM TRYIN TO TERMINAING MY PERENTAL RIGHTS WHEN I HAVE BEEN CHARGED WITH ANY NEGLECT OR ABUSE OR OF ANY KIND ON MY BABIES NOR ANY DRUG CHARGES & NEVER HAVE BEEN IN TROUBLE BEFORE IN MY LIFE... SO IM CONFUSED ON HOW ANY OF THIS CAN HAPPEN TO MY FAMILY. ..
PLEASE ANY1 THAT MIGHT HAVE ANY ADVICE. .....

SINCERELY THE HEARTBROKEN MOM.. 007BOND

Tiffany - posted on 03/05/2013

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If the case was dismissed and nothing was done then you can find out who it was that called on you because it is falsifying documents alot of people don't know that and CPS tries to deny it but it is your right to know. Not all CPS caseworkers are truthful in my case my old caseworker falsified the drug tests and also in many other cases prior to mine. things can be done i spent hours researching and trying to find information and trust me i found plenty. Its the will power that you have... everyone has a bad past but thats just it a past and we are judged for it in the present and most likely in the future as well...

Michelle - posted on 03/01/2013

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Michelle, Tampa, Florida Complaints & Reviews - Caceres



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Michelle






Posted: 2009-11-02 by



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Contact information:
Child Protective Investigations Division

Hillsborough Count Sheriff's Office
Tampa, Florida
United States

Phone: 813-627-2066




Hello my name is Michelle Caceres an I m a victim of Child Protective Sevices.This is the third time that these animals have ruin, and caused confusin, pain, and suffing in my life.These people have turn my life up side down, and I'm not the only person they have hurt.Go on the internet look up fightcps.com you will see how many people's life they have ruin, and how many people have been abused by these heartless animals.As a child they knew I was a child stuck in a broken home, and instead of them helping me, knowing I was being beat up by my father everyday, my parents abusng crack, and forcing me to be a mother a thirdteen.By their own negligent they did not take me from the home, they left me to continue to live in a home where they knew harm was being done to me.11 mouths ago my three year old child was sexualy abused, again I needed help for my baby well I thought Child Protective Services were going to help me the loving concern mother and my baby, boy was I so wrong.They did nothing for my child only made it worst for her beng so young.Not once did they go to this guys house to make him awear of the alligations that were put aganist him or question him, they said due to age they were not sure she was telling the truth.So just like that I wen't from victim to suspect, due to me studing Crime Scene Investigation I knew my rights, and when I was at my lowest point tring to sav myself losing my child, God picked me up.Their is a saying God said for when you are week, God wil make you that much stronger, so when I hit rock bottom, God lifted me up and put m in front of the computer and started to do my own research. Thats when I found fightcps.com and I beat them and they cleard me as a fit mother, in a good houshold, they could not prove any type of neglect, or abuse.So here I am again being abused byChild Protective Servics, here is what happen I don't have a good relationship with my two sisters.One which at the time was liveing with me and my daughter's father, and her son so she can have a place to live, an took care of her son all the time also on the weekens so se could go out, I don't go out because the weekends were for me and my kids.Well I was having problems with my sister Vanessa Caceres, and Stefaine Caceres, never in a million years woud I think they would go so far to call Child Protetive Services and make such horrible lies upon me, ths is not the first time they did a nasty malishis act on me just to hurt me.So the day Kira Sholes social worker and two cops showed up to my door, I did not know what to think, it was about 9:30 in the morning, so if course I was shocked and still half asleep.I knew my rights Kira Sholes and the cops forced them self in my home at broke my fourh Amendment, and begain to attack me, not giving me a chance to defind myself.They were to busy accusing me of all these terriable alligations that where put upon me, already profieing me on what my two sisters had alligted on me.That same day they went to my daughter's daycare to interview my three year old baby girl her name is Victoria Cuebas, they talk to her and took pictures of her and they said their were no marks on her.They also question the owner of the daycare, and told them my daugher was always in school on time, was clean.She also told them my daughter never had any type of marks or abuse, and she was a sweet happy child.Maybe two days later Kira Sholes showed back up to my home, this time I was up and awake because I know my rights. I knew I did not have to open my door, so I open the window an aked her what I could do for her, she asked me if I could open the door and let her in so she could talk to me.I told her she could talk to me through the window, she had no warrent so by law and being an American Citizen I did not have to open the door and let her in my home.Well I guess that made her mad so again she starts to attact and acussing me of being on some type of drug, and she said she would take my child away if I did not let her in.My daughter was home with me because I was scared they would kidnap my child in daycare, untill I was able to find out what was going on.So I had enough of being attacted and her abuseing me, I told her she did not have the right to speak to me the way she was so, I told her to have a nice day and close my window.About an hour later she came back with an officer no warrent and kidnap my daughter from me saying I was impaird and was not able to take care of my daugter, at the time it was just me and my daughter.Her father came home while this was taking place, and they kidnap my daugter from her father that had nothing to do with any of what was going on.Kira Sholes told him he could not have his daughter, no warrent because he left our baby alone with me, and he knows I'm impaird.We went to court the next day and thew out the abuse alliagtions and from their my hell began, I have been to 7 court dates 11 mouths of of them having nothing against me.The CPS had no evidence could not get his witnesess in court, they relize my sisters they were way in over their heads, when they found out, that what they had to go to court they new thay gave false steatments and they stared somthng that they did not what they just did.The point is somthing has to be done they hav put me through so much pan, suffing, lieing about me and in court I can't take ths anymore.They have no case and their wasting the sates time and money on hre say.I want somthing done this is not justic.Thank you pleas let me know somthing m E-mail is michellecaceres1980@hotmail.com

I am here again because someone called CPS to hurt me again, CPS wont even tell me what is going on now it is 2-2013. Once again someone who wants to hurt me called CPS on me again. I won all 4 dispiteful cases I am on #5. I stay home, and keep top myself. This time I don't think my sisters did it I just know CPS is out to get me. Out of no where CPS calls me and wants ti interview my daughter and myself. They took my son out of class to interview with no parent consent. I think I know who did it and why, why should CPS have the right to put there nose where it don't belong, I am truly tired. I have a son who is 12, my daughter who is 7, never have they been to the hospital or doctor for injures. I don't understand why these people stay out of my life, they have my file. It shows the judge new is was done out of spite, they have interview my daughter, myself, and ripped my son out of class to interview him. I think this is bogus my kids are very loved. Now they call me out of no where on 2-27-2013 after not only did they cause me to loose the man I was going to marry, now they are messing with my kids head. I don't like looking over my shoulder I don't have to jump every time someone kn ocks on my door. Now that I am no longer with my soon to be husben, we broke up due to all the lies. Now they are still harrising me, due to CPS I lost my house, and CPS is trin to break my family up. I am so sick an tired I am only trin to live my life, Now they wanna come interview my daughter's father, and the only person who is a mother to me 3-1-2013 why. If anyone can help me out because enough is enough can I take the person who did this to me and have them put ion jail, and I wanna sue the state for harrising me 5 times, pain, and suffing. I know who ever did this is only trin to hurt me for what ever reason really 5 times I won everytime. I am hurt, angrey, tired of worring myself to sick if my daughter will be getting off the bus. Please I am a single mopther of 2 I love my kids, I want the state to stop bothing me, find out who and why this is happing to me. My e-mail is michellecaceres1980@hotmail.com please if someone has advice please E-mail me. Do you think I have a case??????

Jaeda - posted on 11/17/2012

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My son's father used CPS as a means to try and control and hurt me years after he left me. And of course, because he was lying they found nothing. He just knew that it would hurt me. He knew and knows that my son is all that i've got. Unfortunately, a house that I had just moved in about 6 months prior had lead in it and he called on me about that, I was given 30 days to move and wasn't able to fully finish getting everything out until day 31, so I was given a neglect charge for that. Sad to say that he didn't stop until they threatened that the next time that he called they would take him away from the both of us. Some people just feel the need to have power, so they will use the system. Or as I say abuse the system.

Tanya - posted on 11/16/2012

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Is there any way to find out if somebody has called CPS on you or if there is a pending investigation that I dont know about? My gut has been telling me for sometime that my sister is up to something.. I have also found a few things that have confirmed that she is gathering information ect.. Most of it is a completed lie. She doesnt have any kids but has made it her lifes work to take mine from me. This has been going on for years, in one way or another. My oldest son is now 19 and of course he is too old, but believe me she has done her share of brainwashing him. My son and I are very close but she does whatever she as often as she can to destroy that. Now, with my 8 yr old, she is 1000 times worse. The worst part is that we had to move in with her about a yr ago. This is a decison I will forever regreat. Anyhow, I have had a tough time here and there but I have never been in touble and I have always been a good mom and I still am. However, she is taken any little thing she can and just running with it. I have to know if she has started any kind of investigation or CPS case on me, how would I know or find out? I just dont want to be blindsided and I want to be prepared. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

User - posted on 10/07/2012

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My daughter's ex calls cps when he's angry, but he waits until it's his visitation time, then he calls. That way, he doesn't have to give her back. Typically, it's a holiday weekend(he gets her every othe friday from 6pm until saturday at 6pm). Just did it again. My daughter dropper her off on Friday. Saturday morning, he called her & said he wanted her to come get my grandaughter because he got called into work. She told him she couldn't, because she was already at work, since it was his day to have her. So, he called CPS & told them that she dropped her off on Friday all dirty. They told him it was OK to keep her until they investigated. This is Columbus day weekend, so my daughter has to wait until TUESDAY, take off work (again) and go down to family court to get her back. He did this on Christmas weekend also & CPS found nothing. The police said there isn't anything they can do. It's ridiculous.

Terra - posted on 09/08/2012

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When my son was about 4 months old I had childrens aid called on my when my son was about 4 months old. I had just been discharged from the hospital with him after being in there for 3 days and almost losing him twice. my son's father's girlfriend called childrens aid on me stating i was only allowing my son to drink water.this was after she sent me a very rude email about it not knowing the story of what my son's pediatrition told me to do ( my son was born at 33 weeks) childrens aid threatened to take my son from me the night they showed up. I was a single mom of 2 babies under the age of 2 doing everything i could for them and made sure they had absolutely everything they needed. Needless to say that after the intake worker that took the call saw my son she had no reason to be there. my son was 4 months old and weighed almost 30 lbs ( there was no way i was only allowing him water!!!!!) he was almos 8 weeks early and weighed 6lbs 12.5 oz when he was born.... Nothing came of that call and everything was dismissed..... when my son was almost 10 months old i got another knock on my door and it was again childrens aid, only this time the call (by the same person) stated that i was dealing and doing drugs around both my children WHICH IS COMPLETE NONESENCE... childrens aid then without investigating took my son from my care and placed him with my mom. i had placed my daughter with my mom prior to this due to some post partum issues and was bringing her home the very weekend my son was taken from me. I was then led on false promises that i would be able to have my babies back in my care with me if i passed 6 random drug testings. I passed all 6 tests and was very open with them in letting them know i was on anti depressants at that time due to post partum and they double checked to confirm this with my family doctor. After the testing was done and i requested to have my chilren brought home to me childrens aid told me that i was not stable enough to have them back. 2 almost 3 years later my babies are still with my mom but i now see them on a regular basis and have a great relationship with both my children!!!!!! i love my babies to death and would NEVER do anything to harm them or put them in a harmful situation!!!!! I personally do not like childrens aid but they do help families in some aspect but i also believe that they attack single moms and parents that are doing everthing they can to give their children a good life.... ( this is just my opinion!!!!!)

Amanda - posted on 09/07/2012

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I have recently caught wind that someone I considered a sister and her mom, also considered a mom to me, have considered calling CPS on me. My eldest informed me of this and told me it was within the last 7 months that it came up. She told me that they told her it is because I home school my youngest and they feel that she should be in school, even though school was very hard for her and made it difficult for the teachers as well. The only reason I can think they have considered calling CPS is because they do not believe in home school. So I am still nervously waiting the day they show up to investigate.



I hate that people can make accusations when you are doing nothing wrong. I don't hide my child, she participates in activities outside the home, goes to archery lessons, is immunized, and is regularly taken to the doctors, dentist, and optometrist.



For some reason this woman I looked up to has it out for me, and I never new it. Its a scary thought, but I know I am not doing anything wrong. If they do call CPS I am sure it will forever end our friendship, and the friendship of our daughters, because I won't speak to her ever again.

Sarah - posted on 05/13/2012

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Unfortunately CPS doesn't always take your back. It upsets me. If the report is done enough times and it's from someone who is related to authority figures and they do it because you caught them in an illegal act. And especially if you have several people reporting you maliciously it's hard to get out of the situation.
And when you have a crummy social worker. I have done almost everything they have asked, the only thing I struggled with was getting away from my abusive ex boyfriend. Who I have had no contact with since November of last year. Yes, it's been that long. And I have no plan on speaking to him anymore at all. I got out of it and I'm happier now.
What I want is to see and be with my kids. They have cut off ALL contact and tore them away from me permantently while my 6 year old cries and screams for his Mommy. He said he wants to be with me and they wont even honor what HE wants.
Yeah he's 6 years old, but how would you feel if you were being belittled because your not what the norm is so why take your opinion if your not a particular age? He may be 6 years old but his opinion should matter somewhat.
I have NEVER abused my children and this neighbor of mine reported I did, this same neighbor reported that I had molested and beaten and had sex in front of my son who was 2 at the time.
I was just completely angry. As far as I knew making that kind of false report isn't allowed.

This same guy was mad because I had reported him. This little girl I was babysitting told me that he had "touched her" in ways that I was very angry about. She said "He is being very very bad." and I had asked her, "Why? What happened? What did he do?" Her response was "He took me to the McDonalds and Burger King and he played with my privates with his fingers in the bathroom." --- I told CPS and RCMP(Police) about this and they COMPLETELY ignored me and pretended it never happened. Im involved with CPS I must be doing it out spite cause this guy reported me. Actually, no. I noticed how strangely she and he acted when they were around each other. This one time at my house the little girl was looking at this man and he had this strange look on his face and she unzipped his pants... he said "Not here. Not in front of these people." I was furious. I called the rcmp, I gave them the details. NOTHING again was done. He continued to have her alone and walk around with her alone. He continued to have time where he'd take her to his house for hours on end and after an entire day at his house would come to my house and this little girl would be filthy and dirty and in need of a bath, her hair was also messy.
I refused to change her diaper ever since I was accused of this "molestation". I wouldn't change her diaper or wash her anymore. I made her do it herself (She was 5 years old). I hated being accused of things that THIS person was doing. I was always accused. That's the thing, he accuses everyone else. Points the finger at EVERYONE else. Says that everyone else molests and has sex with their children. That kind of raises red flags for me.

Ashley - posted on 04/24/2012

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I strongly believe that trying to put a single mother that tries her best in a bad situation is so messed up. I can relate to some of the post on here, I'm a single mother of 2 and im unemployed staying at home in which something i truly hate because i want to be on my own. I have a terrible relationship with my family who wants to see me struggle and stressed out, My sister and my mother called cps on me before, all out of spite we would have a disagreement and they would try and call, so both times they call they came out and did the inspection and seen that my child is in a very good environment and happy, they said that it is clear they was called out of spite. Now my mother is threatening me that she is going to call them on me because i stay up late at night in which i take online classes in which takes up a lot of time but regardless i take very good care of my baby she just turned 12 months, I really don't know what to do i want to move out and get my own, it's me versus everybody here and enough is enough.

Marta - posted on 03/25/2011

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My ex husband and his family used to call CPS on me all the time. Once because I was "not taking my meds and was considering killing my children", another time I was "stabbing the children with steak knives" and then they called reporting the children were being sodomized because my daughter said it hurt to go poop. CPS finally told then that they would no longer take any complaints from them, and that if they continued to use CPS as a form of harrassment, charges would be brought. It was kind of awesome to know CPS had my back, and that I wouldn't be bothered over bulls**t!

Nichole - posted on 03/25/2011

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Yes someone we loaned money to called CPS on us when we demanded repayment. Nice hu?

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The only personal 'experience' I have really isn't anything at all..... My ex keeps telling the court that there is a CPS case against me yet I've never once been contacted by CPS... or anyone supporting his 'claims.'

Lisa - posted on 03/23/2011

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I am happy for you that you have cleaned yourself up....that is harder than people imagine. My sister went through the same thing. I myself had a situation where my ex-mother-in-law called CPS out of spite (because we would no longer let our 6 year old son, her grandson, visit if we were not there due to hateful comments that she was making to him. Anyway, I had a series of emotions when they first came to my home. First, surprise, than fear (wondering if my kids would be taken away) and than anger, that the call was even made. The CPS worker looked through our home, made sure there was food in the cupboards, asked to see each of the boys' rooms, and then spoke with each boy without us present. After all that, she said that it was obvious that all was good and that the call was a mistake. I am a very good mom (not perfect, but, who is?) We do not physically discipline our boys, rather use time-outs, we keep a nice, clean home and our boys are happy and well-adjusted. For her to call was outrageous and I asked what could be done about people who report these things falsely. Her reply was that all calls will be checked out and that families such as ours will always "pass" their inspection and there will no longer be visits from CPS. Regardless, it is always scary to have an agency such as CPS, that has the power to take a child away from its family, to be in your life. I can only hope and pray that families, such as yours, that have been subjected to false reports by mean-spirited people will be able to pass their "inspections" with flying colors. It should be a comfort in knowing that you are a good mother and CPS involvement is not needed.

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