Summer - posted on 11/29/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
He has had a serious fascination with his butt/anus for several years now and I've not let myself be too concerned about it. However, he's now interested in others anus'. His father called me saying that he caught him trying to stick his finger in another boy's butt. I was mortified! I have talked to only one person about this and they said it wasn't all that abnormal. However, I'm still very uneasy about the situation. I don't want to demean him or perhaps worsen the situation by scolding him or accidentally saying the wrong thing. He has recently been asking questions about sex and I have just kind of shrugged it off. Should I start there? Should I just confront the situation head on? Should I let this be done with and hope it doesn't happen again? I'm just so unsure how to handle this situation and I DON'T want to make it worse. Please help!