Natasha - posted on 06/20/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
I love that I have someone that takes great care of my kids but my mom lets the kids stay up way past midnight, I make them sleep around sunset. She doesn't make them eat well balanced meals, I do. She buys them everything and takes them to fun places all the time, I can't afford to do alot. My kids constantly ask me when can we go to grandma's, and i do mean nonstop. This hurts my feelings because I love my kids and try to make them happy and do what I can but they still prefer to be with her. Then I feel like I have to compete and do what she does. I don't know how to handle this.