my 7 year old has discovered his penis...
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Gail - posted on 09/13/2009
DONT PUNISH HIM!!! what did you punish him for? Its perfectly natural for a boy to do that. Just explain to him that he is to keep it private (in a private place) and explain to him that he must only touch it himself and not let anybody else touch it. Its healthy for boys to masterbate. I would be more inclined to worry if he didnt play with it.
Pnina - posted on 09/12/2009
The real question you need to ask yourself is, "what took him so long?" lol
Both of my sons discovered themselves about the time they started potty training. In fact, that was a hint it was time to start with the younger one. Granted, the first time I saw my oldest son wake up "happy", I was horrified, but it is just normal blood flow that keeps the penis healthy, and they will have them whether they touch it or not. As stated before, the key is not to make him feel wrong about his body, or what he is feeling, but to let him know that some things, we do in private.
Shawnn - posted on 02/20/2014
The appropriate response is "son, that is for your eyes only. Please do not do that in public, or in the front room. I understand that you are curious, and that it feels good, but you need to keep private things private. Please take it to your room."
Tana - posted on 09/13/2009
I am with the other moms. Don't punish him! When he grows up, you don't want him to have weird issues, right? I told both of my boys it was ok to touch it, if he was alone in the bathroom or by himself in his room. The key for me, is that they need to understand that it is a private thing for them to do.
Kati - posted on 02/20/2014
omgoodness! I don't know what I would do... When I was little I was taught that masturbating was wrong, and I would get punished, and guess what... I'm not weird OR sexually repressed! I agree its natural to explore, but I am not comfortable with "self gratification"... I think of it like picking your nose and eating it... I say "stop it that's gross" and move on. I don't know what else to say... do your best and good luck!
Sharron - posted on 08/25/2009
O'k mom, punishing him. Stop and think girl we all been there. He does it because it feels good. Hell everyone does it. This is a phase he is going through he is fine. All children go through it give him some space. He is a normal kid!!!! Don't make him think there is something wrong with it, because then he will start judging his sexuallity. As a mom and a person who was in the nursing field this behavior in children is normal. Everyone discovers their private at sometime. I's o.k. another mom.
Jessica - posted on 08/25/2009
My youngest son (8) also likes putting his hands down his pants, anywhere and everywhere. I set boundaries. I told him that it was okay to touch himself, but the only place it could happen was in the bathroom with the door shut. I personally think it is ok for them to discover themselves, but in an appropriate place. Not in the bedroom, where he shares a room with his brother, outside playing, watching t.v., etc. I didn't want him to feel badly, but I felt he needed to know that there was an appropriate place for it. I have not seen him do anything in a long time. What goes on behind closed doors when he is alone.........Im not sure. Remember...they are boys....who turn into grown men...lol
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