Danielle - posted on 04/10/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
My daughter turned 3 in dec and is starting nusery on the 26th of april, my son is 8 and also goes to the same school. We went to the induction day ( me & my daughter ) for her to start nusery and wen we got inside it took me 15-20 mins to calm her down and explain tht was staying wit her as it only a induction day. She started pre-school wen she ws 2 1/2 and after a few weeks the nursey said it was best if she didnt come bk as she was always screaming n asking for her mummy and daddy and tht it took ages for them to settle her down, and they needed theose ppl to help look after the other kids. also they said she was making her self sick frm the crying and then had a tummy ache so we had no choice a the doctor agreed wit the pre-school.
Wen we went in and after i calmed her down she was happy to go off and play bt kept checking if i was still there which i know is normal and the nursey said tht i was welcome to stay wit her for a bit wen she starts on thw 26th till she gets used to it. Bt my son never needed this he also started pre-school at 2 1/2 and he had a few weeks of crying bt settled in well so why isnt my daughter ?
Iam also scared tht she will scream and make herself sick and get tummy aches at the nursey like she did t pre-school, every1 says well she is older now which i know bt it still took me forever to calm her down and now wen we take her bro to school she screams tht she doesnt wanna go to school or nusery.
Plz help as i really dont know wt to do !!!!