Barbara - posted on 06/02/2012 ( 42 moms have responded )
I have two girls 11 and 14. I have been having an affair with a guy I met through a freind on this site. I asked my Husband to take the girls to work two days a week so I could get a break from homeschooling and their fighting. I used that time to surf the net and send pictures to other guys. LOL I really thought he did not care, I guess I was wrong. The other day, my oldest had a boyfriend problem and needed to speak with me while at work with my husband. They tried forever to contact me but my phone was not working right and her could not reach me. Finally my daughter asked him to drive her to where we were having lunch so she could have a hug, Instead of finding me at lunch they found my van at the hotel, UGH. Being an IT expert, my husband quickly unravelled all of my game. I was really careless. Anyway My question is should I stay with him, he is a good father and I'm sure my daughters will learn that open marriage is ok for me but I really don't want them to do it. My husband is willing to do what ever it takes to keep the girls safe and happy, but vascillates between whether it's better to just dump me and prove the lesson or to keep me and let them have a mother, full time.
I just don't know which way to go.