Angela - posted on 10/05/2009 ( 18 moms have responded )
I was advised by a neighbor that my 14 year old daughter was at her home at 4:00am. She arrived with the neighbor's 18 year old daughter and a 15 year old boy. I was told that my daughter has been sneaking out through the back door for quite some time now.
I don't want to punish her unless I know for a fact that she has left the house in the middle of the night. I want to catch her in the act first. We have placed sensors on the doors that will set off an alarm in our bedroom when the door is opened.
I wanted to have a friend of mine pick her up in the middle of the night and "take off" with her to scare the daylights out of her. But there are to many things that coud go drastically wrong with that scenario. (police involvement, etc)
Any and all advice/suggestions given will be greatly appreciated.