Trying to get pregnant.. no luck. Any ideas or comments?

Roxanne - posted on 03/12/2010 ( 110 moms have responded )

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I am a stay at home mom with two kids (10 and 4). My husband has been working overseas since Jan 2009. He comes home every 3 months fro two weeks, and we have been trying to get pregnant but not luck. My periods are normal. I am not taking any birth control method but am still not getting pregnant. i have never had problems getting pregnant in the past. We planned our 10 and 4 yr old and now nothing..... I have gone for my yearly pap smear and was told that everything is normal. What could it be...? We are trying to have another one and can't.

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Christina - posted on 02/03/2014

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OMG? What is with all the weirdo Spellcaster people on here? Spells? Seriously? Anyway, I think your problem could just be that your timing is off. Once every 3 months for two weeks is a pretty irregular schedule when you only have a couple fertile days a month. Just try to find out when you're ovulating. If you have a 28 day cycle you'll ovulate on Day 14. That day is fourteen days after the FIRST day of your last period. If your cycle is 30 days, you will ovulate a little later - probably about Day 16. It's always best to have intercourse BEFORE ovulation, so the sperm will be waiting for the egg when it's ready. Good Luck! Shoot for about one week after the end of your period.

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I've been married for three years now. Been with hubby for going on 5 years now. We were trying to get pregnant for a while. We suceeded, but lost our twins 2 1/2 years ago. I had given up hope and was looking into adoption. Then I was like forget it. I was depressed, heart broken and just broken. I talk to my pastor and told him I wanted to give my husband a child of his own more than anything in the world. We prayed on it. It took sometime, but I am now six months pregnant. I did go to the baby doctors as we call them after the miscarriage, and the put me on clomid, but nothing did it, until I put it all in Gods hands. So honey I say pray. Prayer seems to be the best medicine for me.

Anita - posted on 12/04/2012

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reflexology can help get the body ready but it works best when both people get it done.. good luck

Patricia - posted on 04/07/2010

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Maybe your husband is the one with the problem has he been seen? I would also suggest a fertility kit to make sure you are timing it all right. Good luck!

Angie - posted on 04/07/2010

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Check into acupuncture! Sounds crazy I'm sure but I know of 3 personal success stories including my sister to be one of them. Another 2 friends are currently trying the same procedure. It's way more affordable and most people have luck within a reasonable number of months. Best of luck to you!! Take care.

Kim - posted on 04/06/2010

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I agree with Tamara. It has been over a year, so you can see a specialist. You could have blocked tubes, or not ovulating, or it could be your husband. Just because you had 2 children does not mean you can't have infertility. I had it and finally had my son on injectables and IUI, then I got pregnant 4 times on my own(3 miscarriages), but for my last daughter I had to go back on Clomid and was about to start IUI again. Good luck. I hope you are able to find some answers and get pregnant soon.

Jackie - posted on 04/06/2010

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I have been trying for five years with no luck and i already have a seven year old daughter i think that i think about it too much thats why its not happening try taking some multi-vitamins or folic acid and take regular exercise good luck and all the very best x x

Tracie - posted on 03/30/2010

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Have you been tested P.C.O.S. (poly-cystic ovarion syndrome). I know alot of people have had problems with that. I took Lydia Pinkham, pills after trying to get pregnant with my daughter. We tried for 9 yrs, to get her. But if you have P.C.O.S. They recommend a pill that's actually for diabetics, Metformin, which I was also put on around the time I got pregnant with my daughter. So I'm not really sure if the Metformin or Lydia Pinkham is what helped me.

Nichole - posted on 03/30/2010

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Wear pokadots and put a potatoe under your bed. it sounds silly but has worked for several family members/relax it will happen.

Wendy - posted on 03/30/2010

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I can give you some tips that are personnal. Do not use lube it is basically like glue as far as the "swimmers" are concerned. Also dont use saliva as this will kill them. Another way to up your chances is to have him wait until after you cum and the he should, the reason being is that your muscles will pull it in further. Everyone else is right also, you both will need to relax and enjoy , practice makes perfect!!!! LOL

Laura - posted on 03/29/2010

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I totaly agree with Amy, When me and my husband were trying to have my first kid, noting worked, finaly we just stoped trying and relaxed and vola. The stress and fuss of trying this does make a diff. I know easier said then done but two months after we realy stop trying I got preg. but the home ovulating test they have now days could help also if you dont want/cant stop trying and planning. GOOD LUCK and LUV.

Amy - posted on 03/18/2010

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The only suggestion I have is quit trying and just enjoy the time he is home. Don't stress out about it. It could be influencing him as well so it may not be all you.

Mary - posted on 03/18/2010

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I got pregnant with my first child with no problems, then we she was 3 we started trying for another one and it took us three years and the whole time my husband and I went to the doctor and they said everything was fine, then for our third child I got pregnant as soon as we started trying so just don't give up I'm sure it will happen but I know how frustrarting it feels cause I went through it for three years

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Be calm and try not to stress too much...stress can cause you to have more difficulties in getting pregnant. My doctor told me that a women is more fertile 14 days before her period...try around that time. Also something that fertility specialist tell their patients is that after having intimacy...for the women to lay down and put her legs up...something else you can try. You can also ask your ob/gyn to give you more advise. Hope that this helps! Good luck and I wish you the best!

Kathleen - posted on 03/12/2010

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you may just be hitting the wrong two weeks. Have you bought a basil thermometer yet? If you get one and start a chart taking your temp down there every am before you get out of bed you can see when the temp rises. That is supposed to be when you are ovulating and able to get pregnant? I tried everything for 15 years to get pregnant the first time, so my situation was a bit different but since you have already had two children I would start with a temp check. GOod Luck!

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