Silka - posted on 02/21/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
I was married for 11 years and had two kids with my first husband. We were married when we were only 19, and had our oldest child when we were only 17. My older two are now 16 and 12. I was remarried a few years ago and have a 2 year old with my husband and we are trying for one more. However I am really stressed sometimes because my husband just can't seem to accept the differences he has with my older two kids. He is a wonderful daddy to our two year old, the kind of daddy that I wish my older two would have had growing up. But most of the time I am pretty much a single parent when it comes to my older two. I seems like everything my older two kids do makes my husband angry, even when it is just normal teen stuff. I tell my older kids that he is just a "two year old dad" and doesn't know how to be a parent of a teenager yet. But I wish it could be easier. Anyone go through this and find a way to blend better?