Erica - posted on 03/20/2010 ( 17 moms have responded )
My husband Joe is wonderful... he works 12 hour rotating shifts and comes home takes a shower and instantly sends me away for a break he will cook supper if it's not started and bathe Caroline with out being asked. Caroline will fall asleep 20 min. faster for him and chants his name all day long (she's 10 months) I have the dream husband who rubs my feet at the end of the day and draws me a bubble bath with a glass of wine. But when Caroline does things for him that she won't do for me like take a bottle or quit crying eat her dinner or giggle I want to slap him! I don't know why but I get so hurt and angry and I know there are times he sees it in my eyes. This man who pampers me and allows me to stay home with my daughter and has given me everything I ever wanted asking for nothing in return doesn't deserve my snide remarks or my jealousy of his relationship with our daughter but that's what he gets w/o me even thinking about it.... Am I a terrible wife or is this normal? Should I seek help for my frustration or just realize it's part of married life?!?!