Tanya - posted on 02/21/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )
On the 9th I lost my wedding ring at the store not sure inside or out. I've posted flyers in the parking lot and left my number in the store in case anyone turns it in. I have walked around my path from my parking space into the store so many times and visited pawn shops, pretty much every thing I could do. My husband is so sweet he didn't get upset he said "don't worry about it, your still my wife ring or not" but I felt so guilty and still do! It is my fault It fell off my finger. I put extra lotion on that morning because my finger was irritated from a cleaner I used, my wedding ring was rubbing on that irritated spot so I took my rings off and flipped them around so my engagment ring was on the inside of my finger and wedding band on the out, I didn't hear it fall off or even feel it. I am so mad at myself about that. As the days pass I am becoming more doutful that I will get it back. It's not an expensive ring we didn't have a lot of money when he decided to ask me to marry him but it is a beautiful ring one would think it is worth more probably. We celebrated our anniversary on valentine's day, I got a beautiful gift of a calla lilly ring (that is our wedding flower) It no way replaces my wedding band and wasn't intended to do so. My husband said we can replace my wedding band if it don't show up my response was "its not the same" and truly it isn't. We have looked at a few bands but they don't sell the ring I had anymore and I don't like the ones we have seen they just don't hold the meaning to me mine had. I kind of feel silly feeling this way, I mean i'm not a selfish person that is hard to please but getting just a wedding band even one that is bigger or is more expensive isn't going to mean what mine did. It went along with his promise and I can't in no way replace that ever, to get a ring it would be like a gift I would love it and it would have meaning but not like I feel it should I mean maybe it will eventully maybe I'm just not there yet, I'm still hopeful about my ring but I have to be honest I probably will never see it again unless a really good person with a huge heart finds it.. Thanks for just listening..