Randie - posted on 09/23/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )
He is an awesome father and husband lol but this one thing drives me INSANE...
Everything I ask his answer is I DONT KNOW. It doesn't matter what it is. What do you want for dinner? What are we doing today? What time do you need to get up in the morning? Do you need me to get your clothes ready? Do you want to watch a movie? Do we need to pay the electric bill this week? Do you want to go over to (best friends) house and hang out?
I mean everything I ask he says I don't know. It would be fine if he really didn't know. But he just says it because he doesn't want to think about it right that second. (He is usually doing something when I ask) I guess he can't think and do something at the same time.
So I say are you thinking about it?? (lol) Cause you can clearly see that he isn't thinking about it. He is paying attention to something else. Then after a while I'll ask again...and it's the same repeated thing. Until finally I'll just say okay then I'll just make whatever I feel like making for dinner. Or Okay then I'll just make up MY own plans for today and not include what you need to do. Then he will finally say omg, I don't know yet hang on. Then he will finally stop what he is doing and actually think about what he wants.
I just don't understand how simple questions can be such a hassle for him to answer lol.
Does anyone else have this problem?? What do I do just stop asking questions and just read his mind....
It's so bad that when I ask a question, in my mind I'm thinking "hmm I wonder what his answer is going to be, It couldn't possibly be I DONT KNOW"
Please tell me this is a guy thing and other people go threw this to. LOL Im just so annoyed