Melissa - posted on 04/07/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )
Please I need some advice on this issue which is that my barely 16 yr old daughter went to my brothers sister and told her that she wanted to go get on birhcontrol because she's sexually active. This is not the problem had she come to me I would have taken her, was going to anyway becuase she said she was have female issue and i thought she might need the pill to regulate her and second i am the last person on earth who keep my daughter from birthcontrol. The problem is that my sister in law has still over a month later not called to talk to me about this i had to find out from a third and fourth party. I do believe in keepiing confidences and the privacy of all that but my family knows me well enough that there was no reason to keep this from me, I am the only parent my kids have everyday of their lives and I feel like this is important information for me to know. Am I wrong in being so upset about all the lying and hiding and especially my sister in law who by the by has 3 little girls of her own for not calling and talking to me about this?? I obviously have to have a talk with her suggestions needed on that and how to handle a daughter who promised swore that she is not sexually active and has been taught about waitng. Not that I completely believed that but i did trust my daughter suggestions needed on how to handle her, what to do! HELP MOMS I am desprete not to screw this up but I have to do something with both my daughter and with my sister in law don't I????? HELP SOON PLEASE!!!