Sara - posted on 06/29/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
I am pregnant with my second child and don't know the baby shower etiquette. I want to celebrate this baby with a very casual party (a cookout or something) but I don't know whether to put where I'm registered at or put gifts optional. They will be very close together (19 months apart) but are different genders and born at different times of the year. My family is telling me it's rude to "ask for gifts" by putting where I'm registered at but my friends are saying people will want to know. Should I put where I'm registered at and risk coming off as rude and pushy or just not put anything at all and let people decide??