Juliette - posted on 10/07/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have been with my new boyfriend for almost a year and we had our son Cyrus a month ago. I knew him for two years before we ended up dating. I have three other children who he has accepted very well, who all have different fathers. i had been in a relationship with the first one dad and he wanted her aborted. My second one father was abusive, causing domestic violence towards me and I fought back and left,. My third ones father was lying to me and had another gf. I ended up alone at three months pregnant. All fathers had affairs and I tolerated it. Now I have a very hard time trusting my bf. He notices alot and tries to understand due to my past. I have seen picture posted up of him holding a girl twice in ways I didn't feel comfortable. I broke down during this scenario telling him to leave. I got to the bottom of the pics and found out he was drunk and she set up the pics, knowing he had a gf, to get back at her man. She didn't apologize or anything just told me I am dumb and a b****. I let it go. but My trust is mostly gone. When he wants to go out with friends I automatically get nervous and agitated towards him. When hes on his cell or on fb when I am in another room I get worried about secretiveness. i just want to be able to trust him, but he broke that with the pictures and secretive ways. I want our family to work but how do I get back to how I used to be when I was able to trust and not be worried and upset when he wants alone time?