An E-book for Parents Who Have Lost a Baby to Stillbirth

Ginny - posted on 08/15/2010

Jane, I'm so sorry about your little girl - but you're right, she is still a part of you, every day. And you are not alone - there are so many of us out here who know what you have been through. Thanks for stopping by. Ginny

Jane - posted on 08/07/2010

Hi everyone. I know this is weird to say but for me its great to know that I am not the only one in this world that has lost a child to Stillborn. In May 1999 I had a beautiful baby girl that died 2 days before i gave birth to her. The doc`s couldnt really say why she did couse the ortopcy couldnt really conclud anything. everything was the way it should be. They could only come up with that she might have had a heart condition and died from a heartact :( This was very hard on me since she was my first child and to help me through the prosses I desided to be apart of her. I held her for 1½ hours to help me understand that this had nothing to do with me. That this was her way of coming to this world and that she knew that I would understand why she choose me to be her mother. So I took lots of pix and filmed her, I areanged her funiral and i even went to pick up her tiny casket. Eventhough she is gone we gave her a name Victoria. She had this most peaceful face u could ever imagen. She looked like an Angel and that she was at peace. After awhile i questioned my self about it and if it was my fault. I had to get some answeers about it. So I had my dad for this. He told me something so wonderful that made me understand the situation about Victoria. His words were, " You are a very strong lady and victoria knew that and thats why she CHOOSE U to be her mother maybe only for a short time on this earth. She new how special you are and that you will understand why she choose you." It took me along time still to really understand what he ment by that. In 2006 i came to understand what my father said to me. Now I cant say what it means for everyone but what it ment for me was I am a strong person and I belive that one day I will see her again. There is still a part of her in me and in her little sister. She still lives amoung us and always will. I see her more then I ever did before and to celerbrate her birthday we go visit her and wish her a happy birthday. Its not easy but it gets better every time. I feel for you all and I understand your pains and fustrations. Pleakeep in mind that there is a reason for why you were choosen by your beautiful children. I know I do. With love Jane

Ginny - posted on 07/25/2010

How are you doing? Sorry I haven't replied earlier...

Ginny - posted on 07/25/2010

Thank you.

Emily - posted on 03/12/2010

that would have been nice. was still leaking 6 weeks after the death of my daughter.

Tasneem - posted on 03/04/2010

I lost my son in dec2009 a day before he was due to be born .I hv been searching for books n here i found the perfect book.
Thx for all the effort.
Take care

Laura - posted on 02/06/2010

Hi My name is Laura Beechler and i lost my second baby on Feb 15th 2007 it was very hard for my family . My first child is 6 yrs old and she took it very hard when her sister died.

Shakeya - posted on 01/15/2010

On December 21,2009 would have been my dauhter Shanaya's 5th birthday and it is still hard to cope on that day. To top things off I lost my only sibling on December 11, 2009 WOW I am at such a loss of strength right now.... :-(

Ginny - posted on 10/24/2009

Hi Paula - how was the first anniversary? How are you doing?

Ginny - posted on 10/24/2009

Hi Tamara - I just saw your note - I'm so sorry about your son. Hugs to you.

Tamara - posted on 09/22/2009

I wish someone would have thought about having something like this 8.5 years ago when I lost me son.

Paula - posted on 09/10/2009

its been hard, it still is but i have my 5 year old daughter to keep me going,, i still have my moments when i sit watching tv and look round the room and think his pram should be there his bottles and dummies on the table,, its coming up to his 1st birthday next month

Ginny - posted on 09/10/2009

I'm so sorry, Paula. My son died 3 days before his due date. How are you coping?

Paula - posted on 09/10/2009

i lost my son last year to stillbirth, he died the day before he was due to be born, i was 36 weeks pregnant

Ginny - posted on 09/01/2009

Thanks for that tip - I didn't know about that, and wish someone had given me that option.

Anna - posted on 08/31/2009

Don't Know if your going to update your book or if you're interested in homeopathy, but I was Given a dose of Lac Canium 200 C and I was much less engorged and uncomfortable than when I nursed my first child.