Sarah - posted on 02/16/2010 ( 48 moms have responded )
I had a stillbirth at 36 weeks due to an umbilical cord accident on September 30, 2008. I am now running into the question of "How many children do you have?" when out with my 3 year old. I don't know how to answer this to strangers cause their next question is always "how old are they?" A part of me wants to talk about Jackson becasue in my heart he is still my son, and if i don't say 2 then its like he never exsisted which upsets me. To people I know a little better I answer that I have two, one here and one in heaven. As many of you know it makes a lot of people uncomfortable when you talk about YOUR child's death. Any recommendations??