does anyone else have seperation issues with the other children

Cynthia - posted on 03/31/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )




after i lost my son in june of 07 i never had any problems moving on witch suprised my husband i was 27 weeks when i lost him. but anyways i found my self pregnant again in april of 08 with my lil princess she is our everything and we are blessed to have her in our lives......but i find myself having seperation issues with her i hate leaving her in her own room the min i leave her all the bad things that can happen start running through my head. i really dont trust leaving her with friends and i live in texas due to hubby being in the army so i have no family to leave her question is does anyone else have these problems. its like im stressed and kinda depressed when im not with her. is this normal

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Katie - posted on 04/02/2011




I hope this is normal. As I am typing this I am dealing with seperation anxiety. My son is now almost 8 and when he goes to his friends house for a sleepovers I have to fight anxiety attacks. He left last night(Fri.) and will be back Sunday morning. It took us 8yrs. to get pregnant the first time. 1st boy died during birth due to a birth defect. 7yrs. later got pregnant again 2nd boy was still born at 38 wks. 2 yrs. later had a healhty boy. For me it's hard to handle coming home to an empty quiet house. Reminds me of coming home without my babies. I really have to talk my way thru each episode. I know it is not healthy for me or my son to not be away from each other. I ask God to keep him safe and to help me deal with it. And I am so sorry for you loss! It is a horrible thing to go thru. Be kind to your self. Talk with friends if you can. (((Hugs)))

Juliana - posted on 03/31/2011




Its completely normal. I lost my daughter in Dec 09 to SIDS. We had a little boy in Oct 10. Hes 5 months old now and it took me until he was 3 months old before i didnt worry about him when he was with my husband. I just recently was able to leave the house and not have an anxiety attack.

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