Kendra - posted on 06/25/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
Hello! Just wondering if anyone else who has lost a child, finds it hard to hear people make a comment about they dont care if it is a boy or a girl as long as it's healthy. My husband and I lost our son almost 7 years ago. We have since had another child who is now healthy (spent time in NICU and several trips to the heart specalist). We lost his twin at 9 weeks gestation. I know people dont really mean it like that when they say it, but having lost 2 children it still sometimes bothers me.