Nicole - posted on 12/12/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
I'm having a very difficult time explaining to my 4yr old son about his two baby angels. Sarah born @ 29 wks Feb 07, & Nikia born f/t active labour Nov 08. It's been an extreamly hard few years. And i simply don't enjoy christmas, i feel as if i'm just going throught the motions. But, the delima that i still struggle with is my son, and his understanding. His askin of why he didn't get to keep his baby sisters, and his cousin did. ( my sister-in-law had a baby girl a few months after Nikia was born. A baby they didn't want... her two other children are 18 & 13) he keeps askin y he didn't get to keep his. and i'm totally drained of ideas on how to explain it to him. Any suggestion on how you told sibilings?? Thanks in advance for your help.