Hi My name is Leleigh and my baby boy RYAN was born sleeping on June 20th..I was wondering is ther anybody else out there thats going throught this heartach, x

Tania - posted on 09/21/2012

Dear Lesleigh,

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Ryan. I hope that you can see how many mums out there understand your pain. You have many arms to hold you! We have all been there. It has been 6 years for me since I Iost my first born daughter at 33 weeks gestation. This must still be so raw for you. And I understand how grief stricken you must be feeling. I remember it well. Time does help, but our babies are always there. You will never forget, but you will smile again. I have two children now......I thought I would never get there. But I did. I think about my daughter all the time. She is always in my heart. Your son Ryan will always be with you too. He is forever a part of you. And you will forever be his mum. May the sun shine down on you again soon. Much love and hugs!

Sasha - posted on 09/10/2012

this helps me

Sasha - posted on 09/10/2012

i am sasha dunavant .. my daughter lux did august fourth and I am SOOOO SAD... I cnt look at pictures of her.

Tena - posted on 09/10/2012

Leleigh, I am sorry for your loss. I fully understand and know your heartache as my oldest child (Maria) was called home at about 15 minutes old. She was born at around 20 weeks, when success with babies that early was slim (22 years ago). I will tell you that it does get easier with time. You will never forget but you learn to cope. There were days that I was ready to give up and that is normal. I went on to have 4 more children (1 also and angel that we never knew about - his twin is fine) Take care or yourself, find a support group locally if you need too and know that I will keep you in prayer.

Sharon - posted on 09/10/2012

I have had many days like that, those feelings and emotions can sometimes be so hard to deal with. One thing I did to help myself because not that many people can understand what we deal with, is I planted a small flower bed in memory of Isaiah, and slowly I add to it as I need to, it gives me a sense of comfort as I take care of it daily, it is my time to think of him, cry if I need to and feel like I can talk to him as I take care of the flowers. Doing this gives me a sense of comfort, when nobody is around or wants to hear about how I feel, maybe when you feel up to it maybe you can try it to see if it can help, just a suggestion okay, please take care of yourself, my prayers are with you- Sharon H

Lesleigh - posted on 09/10/2012

Thank you sharon for your reply. Sorry for your loss. I have my days and I just feel like all my hope and dreams for the future are gone.. x x x

Sharon - posted on 09/10/2012

Hi Leleigh, first let me express my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your beautiful son Ryan. I want to let you know that I am the mom of a sleeping angel myself and I indeed share your pain. You are not alone, there are many that feel what you are feeling and cry with you. No one can tell you how you feel, but I can say I understand and walk with you during this most difficult time in your life, my son Isaiah was born sleeping also on Oct 2, 2009. Please know along with myself there are many moms here who are here for you and support you. There are no words that I have that can heal your heart, I can just say I understand, and I am here to share with you and support you as you journey through this most difficult time. I am not an expert or anything, its been almost three years for me and at first I didn't think I could make it another day, but with much support and prayers I am still here, getting stronger each day, and doing anything I can to support all moms with sleeping angel babies, give yourself as much time as you need and reach out for help,some one will be there for you including me. Sharon H