I am so depressed its been 3 yrs sence my daughter died

Ann - posted on 03/11/2013

Glenda thankyou for your post it helped

Ann - posted on 03/11/2013

When it first happened I didnt get any signs because I was in shock. I was trying to figure how to bring her back. I know it sounds wierd. One night I cried out to the god help me please let me know where my daughter is. Since that night god has been with me. Its hard to explain but if you call out to him he will come.
I cried out oh lord let me hear the sound of the words mom.
My daughter came to me and say Hi mom its me Rochelle.
Most people would think I nuts. But if God made this world he can surely let me talk to my daugher. When I crying its hard to connect its when Im at peace she comes. Has anyone else out there had any signs?

Glenda - posted on 03/09/2013

One thing for sure - the hurting never goes away. You learn to adjust to each day. Our beautiful daughter passed suddenly Mar 7, 2011 from influenza that led to PVL MRSA with necrotising pneumonia. It's been devastating for myself, my husband and our 18 yr old son. She was about a month away from her 15th birthday. To add to our devastation, about 7 months later her closest friend, who was like a daughter to us, died in a car accident. Honestly I've learned your only option is to take each day as it comes to you. I relive the event of our daughter's death Mon-Fri every week of the year as I step through the doors of the hospital where she was being cared for & go to my office. My best advice is to remain strong and surround yourself with people that are only positive. Talk about her as often as you need too but try and keep the conversation & stories positive. Others really do care about you but they have no idea what you are going through. It's so easy to alienate others because they are uncomfortable. They don't know it's ok to talk about her. They don't understand how much you need to keep her memory alive. Do positive things to remind you of her. My husband, son and I took a season to build a large pond/raised flower bed in our front yard. It includes stepping stones she made as well as stones & objects that remind us of her, her best friend & our other family. We will continue to add to it as the years go by. I also did something completely outside of my character - had a tattoo, I designed, placed on my upper right shoulder. It is a cross that includes Leasha's name, her friend's name, our son's name and the initials of almost 30 of the girls closest friends that still stay in touch with us today. This way I carry them all with me everywhere I go. As you can see, how you choose to relate to the horror of losing a child will directly reflect on how you are able to cope with the loss. I send strength & prayers to you and everyone else on here that suffers from the loss of a child. If anything - know you are not alone :)

Leann - posted on 03/06/2013

I lost my daughter almost years and still tear up. I have living children but I still have a huge hole. I tell my friends about her and keep pictures of her around the house. You never get over it, the pain does ease some. The coping becomes easier. I wish I could say more reassuring things. The night my daughter died I knew I would never "get over it." But I am able to laugh, enjoy my family and to move on. Hugs and prayers. LeAnn

Michelle - posted on 03/06/2013

Linda... I lost my 22 year old daughter two months ago.i like you look for signs everyday. I wonder if they are there but I am looking to hard. I will tell you we have a cat bc that we have had for 14plus years and never does this cat meow. The very day my daughter was killed he sat in her room and cried. I got up to check on him and I immediately began to wonder why Megan had not returned from her run. Shortly after we were notified. He still about onceaweek will sit in the bathroom and cry. As soon as I go to look in on him he just begins to take a drink from hiswater bowl. A part of me believes that is my sign. I am crushed. To me this right here right now. Is how I will feel the remaining days of my life. I miss her soooooo much. I am sorry I offer no comfort, I just want my Megan back.
Michelle

Kimberly - posted on 01/11/2013

Hi Linda,
How are you holding up? I lost my precious daughter HeatherAnn august 30, 2012. She turned 26 that day. Yes she died on her birthday. I understand how you feel. My daughter and i were very close, so her death hit me badly. i too look for those signs. When she first passed, I think it was 2 days later, I heard a banging, boom, boom, boom. It happened like that a couple times, then stopped. the next night I was looking for some pictures of her in my china cabinet, and somethinng, or should i say someone was poking at my right side. I KNOW THEY WERE SIGNS FROM MY HEATHERANN. Here and there I feel her, but not as much as i want to or figured she would let me know she was around. NOT a day goes by that i shed tears for her. I miss my baby so much. you will get signs, dont worry. Just have faith, your daughter will come around. Its just about timing i guess. you have to be ready for it. I got freaked out at first, but realized it was my daughter. and im waiting for another sign. Sometimes when I am crying, I take a deep breath, I let it out slowly, and feel comfort. i truly believe she is holding me during those times. i hope this helps you.

Kimberly - posted on 01/11/2013

i know a handsome little boy that passed from that when he was 4 yrs old...he would have turned 13 this year....very sad, sorry for your loss

Linda - posted on 01/11/2013

Hi my name is Linda..Its been 3 yrs since anyone has responded to this sight so I am hoping that is ther still someone out there.....I lost my daughter less than a month ago..infact it was 9 days before Christmas of 2012......I know how she died but I am so very confused on why it had to happene to her..she was only 20yrs old...My heart feels so empty without her..I look all around the house for a sign from her telling me she is ok and at piece...But I feel nothing..I believe in life after death and always did..but to be honest now that I am the one looking for the signs my beliefs are changing...Is this normal ????? If there is anyone that can help please do....

Linda - posted on 01/11/2013

Hi my name is Linda..Its been 3 yrs since anyone has responded to this sight so I am hoping that is ther still someone out there.....I lost my daughter less than a month ago..infact it was 9 days before Christmas of 2012......I know how she died but I am so very confused on why it had to happene to her..she was only 20yrs old...My heart feels so empty without her..I look all around the house for a sign from her telling me she is ok and at piece...But I feel nothing..I believe in life after death and always did..but to be honest now that I am the one looking for the signs my beliefs are changing...Is this normal ????? If there is anyone that can help please do....

Linda - posted on 01/11/2013

Hi my name is Linda..Its been 3 yrs since anyone has responded to this sight so I am hoping that is ther still someone out there.....I lost my daughter less than a month ago..infact it was 9 days before Christmas of 2012......I know how she died but I am so very confused on why it had to happene to her..she was only 20yrs old...My heart feels so empty without her..I look all around the house for a sign from her telling me she is ok and at piece...But I feel nothing..I believe in life after death and always did..but to be honest now that I am the one looking for the signs my beliefs are changing...Is this normal ????? If there is anyone that can help please do....

Rebecca - posted on 01/04/2013

here is a poam in loving memory pancho rodriguez jr 12-14-99 to 1-10-2002 rhabdomayosarcoma , ill lend to you for a little time a child of mine ,he saidfor you to love while he lives,mourn for him while he is dead.it may be six or seven years,or twenty two or three but willl you tell i call him back ,take care of him for me? ill bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief youll have his lovely memorie as solance for your grief,i cant promise he will stay sence all from earth returns,but there is lessons taught down there i want this child to learn,i looked the world over in search for teachers true and from the throngs that crowd lifes lanes i selected you now will you give him all your love and not think the labor vain,nor hate me when i call and take him back again? i fincied that i heard them say, dear lord,thy will be done for all the joy thy child shall bring,the risk of grief will run well shelter him with tenderness well love him while we may,and for the happiness weve known forever grateful stay but should the angels call for him much sooner than we planed well brave the bitter grieg and try to understand. i hope this helps

Kimberly - posted on 12/29/2012

rita how would i start that...i got on this site accidently, but i respond to certain circles...especially this one...kimberly

Rita McDonough - posted on 12/28/2012

A page, not a site. It's a page someone would put up for their living child. To tell cute stories, post photos, etc. I never agreed for that page to be set up. If you do a search of your daughter's name on the Circle of Moms site, it might also come up. When it happened to me, I was confused, and then appalled.

Kimberly - posted on 12/20/2012

what do you mean they posted a site for your daughter kimberly

Vanessa Bright - posted on 12/20/2012

You never get over it Shauna,my daughter Ayesha,died in 2007 aged 10 she was my only child,and only family i had,she died to medical failures,it never ever goes away,what people say that time is a healer,is very untrue,you learn in time to have to make the best life for yourself,adapting again,and believe me,it is not easy, If i can help you in any way,then you are more than welcome to email me back . Vanessa x sorry for your loss too

Rita McDonough - posted on 12/12/2012

I have to take life one hour at a time now. Maybe it's more like one minute at a time. I agree, peace is an impossibility, now. People just don't get it. They whine and complain about the most trivial things. I listen, and just wonder how they can be so petty around me? They know what I've lost. Do they think the pain will just fade away? That my daughter will become a dim memory, and that it will just stop hurting so much? Sometimes, I just want to shake people!



Today, I discovered that Circle of Moms automatically created a cute little page about my daughter, as if she's alive. It's an unbelievable oversight on their part, to have that feature programmed into their site. I'm blown away.

Tlconner - posted on 12/10/2012

I lost my beautiful daughter 7 years ago this month, she was only 18 and always healthy.

I received a phone call from her friends mom on a Friday morning a,little before 9:00 a. m.

Said she was sick so I took her to the hospital, thought she might have a severe case of the flu

She was talking to me on the way. I went back to work called and checked on her and received the most devastating news of my life, when I called the nurse your daughter is very, very, ill.

I rushed to the hospital, and was pulled in the doom room by the Dr and told she had PPH.

A lung disorder that affects I in three million people a year from what I have been told and read.

My daughter was life flighted to a larger hospital that specializes in heart and lung transplants,

Her only hope - she was still talking to me and being herself the way, i watched her body symptoms and beautiful, always healthy body showing symptoms of shutting down.

The Drs were even perplexed , she was still talking to me and completely clear headed the whole time, then while we were talking Sunday morning it happened , I still can't share all the details with any one even my husband as I was alone with her there . She was gone that Sunday almost 48 hours later. I still can't get past losing her, I lost my footing and can't find a way to deal with this, my mom was my only sense of comfort and I lost her a year later to breast cancer. There were no drugs found in my daughters system either , the team of Drs were even in shock as this was so, so, so, rare as they put it. I will never have any peace again, it just makes no sense.

Rita McDonough - posted on 12/06/2012

It's been a year since I lost my beautiful 26 year old daughter. It hasn't gotten easier. I haven't learned to accept it. I don't know how I'm surviving this sorrow. I adored my daughter. We were extremely attached. People have been supportive, but they can't understand how persistent the pain is. I lost my fiance when I was 24, and thought I wanted to die. But, I was ready to move on within about six months. I still loved and missed him, but I accepted what happened and went on with my life. I lost my father when I was 35. It was life-altering and sad, but the grieving process was similar to when I lost my fiance. This is different! I'm not going through a normal grieving process since I lost my daughter. I think about her constantly. I still cry every day. I'm incapable of feeling happiness. I'm not me anymore. I go through the motions of living, but inside I'm somewhere else, thinking about my daughter all the time. It will be good if I can recover someday. I'd say I hope I do, but I'm incapable of hope at this point. I know I haven't said anything to comfort you, unless it provides a shred of comfort to know that you're not the only one out there suffering in this way. None of us deserved this. No one understands this pain except those of us who are experiencing it. My heart reaches out to every parent on earth who is suffering the loss of a child.

Kimberly - posted on 10/01/2012

sorry about your loss...my daughter Heather just died august 30, 2012..She died on her birthday at the age of 26 yrs. i am soooo lost without her..my heart is aching and feels so empty...i have two sons, but they are not my daughter...we did so much together, even argued..i would take the argueing over and over to have her back..people that have had children died, yold me it evenyually gets easier to deal with the pain..i dont know how that is true, but they experienced what you are going through...i hope you get the peace you deserve...congratulayion on the birth of your son...all i can say is go day to day Shauna, and appreciate the time you have with your son....you know how precious time is...if you need an ear just to listen, my email is kimbie.kat2@verizon.net

Ann - posted on 09/27/2012

everyone look up jesse Duplantis hes seen heaven

Ann - posted on 09/14/2012

I love this Poem

I miss my Rochelle God took her in her sleep No cause She was 30

God saw u getting tired So he put his arms around u & whispered come with me. With tearful eyes, we watched & saw you pass away. Although we love you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest, God broke our hearts to prove to us he only takes the best. Put this on your status if there is someone in heaven u will miss this Christmas

Ann Marie - posted on 09/12/2012

I love that poem

Leann - posted on 06/22/2011

i so feel your pain. i kept having kids to try to fill the void but nothing ever helped. i love my subsequent kids but 23 years later it still kills me. heather was so dear, precious and i was so in love with her. i will never recover from the loss of her.

Col - posted on 10/16/2009

i know how you feel i lost my daughter feb 06 and everyday i feel so empty like there is a big hole that needs to be filled ,i sit and think what she would look like in her uniform cos she would be starting school ,i go to her garden and that brings a little relief cos i like to talk to her butfor me it has got easier to not cry everyday abouut my beautiful angel but its still as hard as it was when we lost her,but there is one thing i know is that she would not want her maamy to be sad ,and i think your daughter would want the same xxxx

Krystal - posted on 10/16/2009

You can't get over your daugther death its only been 1 year for me and hoildays birthday i certain son she sung. School.I had two before she passed and just looking at them knows that my daugther lives their smile laugh attutide everything i know its there sister. Your daugther may want you to move on but never forget because when i want to cry i know she is looking down at me saying mommy why are you crying don't cry

Brandie - posted on 10/14/2009

Quoting Donna:

Thank you for your insight I just started to go to church I need to find away to deal with this it's been 7 yrs now I do have good days well more than bad. I want to be open and full of joy cause that's what Sara would want me to be she was soo full of life and didn't let anything get in her way of doing things she wanted to do. And that's what i have to do not worry about anything else but that.

Good for you... Making a closer relationship with god will help you have more understanding. Sara will be so happy for you and your family. God doesn' t want you to be sad. He never tried to make you sad. He has a plan for all of us. Death is something alot of people do not understand. I lost a nephew seven months ago and was the hardest thing Id ever seen my brother and his finace go through. I cried as if the baby was one of my own. I was a newly christian at church and as I grew with christ I began to understand god has a purpose. I brought my brother and his fiance to church with me and the rest of my family and hers too. There is no one else that god would rather see you run to for help and understanding but him. That is awsome. They are still coping of course but it made it much easier for them to have some closure. We may never no why it happened but god does and for us we know he had a plan for Kyle and we accept that and know he is with Jesus and  in our hearts and was loved very much. The pain will never go away but will get easier if you let god come into your heart and do his work. To help you understand and pray he give you the strength to move forward without worrying.

Brandie - posted on 10/14/2009

You just need to know that you have only lost your daughter physically but she is still with you and will always be. In your heart daily. God has a purpose and know that she is in heaven. Is one of gods little angels. God didn't do it to punish you but because he has a plan. You may not understand that easily but know just know and pray that god help you get some understanding. To be with her one day what you could do to help you and your family cope with and understand more is join a church and get closer to god. He will give you opsticles in your life to see how strong you are and what you can handle. Its easier to know when you have a close relationship with god. To know your baby girl is still with you doing wonderful things up in heaven for god and had the opportunity to step into the glory of heavens. Know that she doesn't have to struggle through sin and life here on earth. But one thing she does know is how much her mommy loves her. And how missed she is but I will tell you that going to church and getting saved and growing a relationship with god she wouldn't be more proud....smile she is still with you...

Debbie - posted on 10/12/2009

Hi Jennifer. I lost my little girl also, at the age of 16. Just last year Jan 12 08.

I read your post, and i too feel the same way. Each and every day i sit here and think any day now she is gonna walk into this house. I CAN NOT get my brain to kick into reality. I just cant beleive she is gone. Then i sit and wonder maybe the reason i cant beleive she is gone is because she aint !!!! She is right here with me, watching over me, whipping the tears from my eyes each and every night when i go to bed. I beleive my baby girl Kayla will stay with me till we meet again in Heaven. You are alot like me in wany ways..I too was married at the time of my Daughters death. (stepfather) He could not deal with my depression of loseing my daughter. To him i should have gottin over it 6 months after her death. I dont beleive i will ever get over it..she was my baby, my best friend. We are now seperated as well.

I made a website for my daughter Kayla if you wish to veiw it. www.kayla-ludwig.last-memories.com

And Jennifer if you ever need someone to talk to who knows exactly how your feeling, plz add me to msn or feel free to email me. Because i know i would love to have a friend who knows exactly how i feel to talk with. horse_lovers_mom@msn.com

I also have a page on facebook for Kayla . in loving memory of kayla sharron ludwig

Nice to meet you Jennifer my name is Debbie

Jennifer - posted on 10/12/2009

Donna, she was 18 and she had a loving and forgiving heart. I sit and sometimes wait for her to come in the front door with a big smile and waiting for her to hug me. I lost my husband Aug. 29th but we were split up,I think alot of it was because I cann't get over mymandy's death.

Debbie - posted on 10/10/2009

I too lost my 16 yr old Daughter last yr. Jan 12 2008. Due to a auto accident. She went out with her boy friend and couple friends. Boy friend desided to drive drunk and rolled the truck. 4 days after the accident he desided he was gonna put all the blame on my daughter and say she was the one driving. She he walks free..:( Justice SUCKS !!! To this day, I CAN NOT deal with my Daughters death. To me it still feels like it happend a week ago. I feel like the pain and tears will never go away. She was my best friend..I miss her so much :( The pain is just unbearable...

www.kayla-ludwig.last-memories.com

Margaret - posted on 10/08/2009

Take each day as it comes.I lost my baby girl 10 years ago you never get over your loss but it does get easier.Iwas 9 months pregnant,my daughter was stillborn i have 3 beautiful girls now and a husband who,s my rock.There is help out there,and if you need to cry ((let it all out).Time is a great healer,hopefully i have helped a little,Your beautiful baby is with the angelsXxx

Susan - posted on 10/06/2009

I lost my daughter Chloe last year when she was 5 weeks old of SIDS. Its a very traumatizing thing to go through. I'm so sorry for your loss. I am still dealing with issues of guiltand just missing her. Everytime i see a little girl that she would be the age of now it breaks my heart.I know that i will never get over this loss. But I do know that I have to live with it. I have a family that depends on me. Even though i know that no one understands my specific pain , there are people who will listen. Talk to someone dear. Don't keep it bottled up. Take it from some one who knows, depression hurts. Not just you but those all around you. Will you be happy again? Yes. Will you be as happy? No. But life can be enjoyable again. Remember the good times. Learn to smile when you think of him. And remember it's ok to cry. I hope this helps you in some way. I wish you and your family well.

Latessah - posted on 10/05/2009

i dont know what to say tou i lost my son almost 4yrs ago and i cant get him out of my head. i have 4 other children and my youngest is almost 2 mo. i cant look at her and not cry. i cant lokk at my kids father without breaking down. so if you find any answer please email at latessahwashington@yahoo.com or email me if you want to talk.

Donna - posted on 10/02/2009

I am so so sorry and I feel your greif they say it's hard to lose a child when there young because you don't get to see them grow but it's hard as they do cause they were so close to there dreams of doing what they wanted to do but thank you for the poem Sara was real good at writing them she would have loved it i know i do.

Tlani - posted on 10/02/2009

Daddy please don`t look so sad,

Mommy please don`t cry.

I am in the arms of Jesus

and He sings me lullabies.

Please do not try to question God,

don`t think He is unkind.

Don`t think He sent me to you and that

He changed His mind.

You see, I am special

and I`m needed up above.

I`m the special child you gave Him,

the product of your love.

I`ll always be there with you.

So watch the sky at night.

Find the brightest star that`s gleaming.

That`s my halo`s brilliant light.

So Daddy please don`t look so sad.

Mommy please don`t cry.

I am in the arms of Jesus.

And He sings me lullabies.



I lost my little boy 2 and a half weeks ago we still dont know how or why ........ this has helped me on my low days so far, i hurts so much some days are hard to bear it would have been his 3rd birthday tomorrow

Donna - posted on 09/30/2009

Thank you for your insight I just started to go to church I need to find away to deal with this it's been 7 yrs now I do have good days well more than bad. I want to be open and full of joy cause that's what Sara would want me to be she was soo full of life and didn't let anything get in her way of doing things she wanted to do. And that's what i have to do not worry about anything else but that.

Lonnie Lynn - posted on 09/29/2009

the thing I have learned is, there are only two things in life that we truly own...two things that nobody can take from us, we can't even give them away, they are ours until the end of our days...these two things are, our faith and our pain...I am learning and will continue to learn how to incorporate the pain into my life...it isn't easy and I still cry daily, I believe that I always will...another thing I have learned is, tears aren't bad...

those who love you will learn to understand, you live with pain...those who only think they love you will leave and thats ok, let them go...

I am a Christian and my faith is strong but when my son was Dx with a brain stem tumor, I question why...
my son was 6 and a half years old when he passed...there was no cure for his tumor and there is no cure for my pain...

my motto;
every day of my life has added up to who I am today and every day of my life plus today will be the sum of who I am tomorrow...

God Bless you
always Lonnie

Donna - posted on 09/29/2009

That's awesome this is the time of year that it get's to me her birthday is next month and this was her favorite time of year as mine

Shenae - posted on 09/29/2009

Thank you. I look at my daughter and I'm grateful for her everyday she's alive. I have a great support system as well.

Donna - posted on 09/29/2009

Thank you I just started going to church and i'm gonna tgalk with the minister but I do talk to family and i'm so sorry to hear about your babies good luck with your 13 month old.

Shenae - posted on 09/29/2009

You never get over the loss of a child. Trust me. I lost two babies in close succession. The second loss was harder than the first (I miscarried 18 weeks into my pregnancy). I became pregnant four months after the second loss. My daughter is 13 months old now. I still grieve for my babies. I grieve for what they could have been. Talk to someone who can help you through this.

Donna - posted on 09/27/2009

Thank you i am doing much better i went to church this morning i have been trying to find one that meets my needs and i finally did thank you i would love to talk with you more and i'm so sorry to here that right now i need me time and to figure things out what's best for me so fa so good.

Shawna - posted on 09/27/2009

Take things one day at a time. Things will get easier. I lost my daughter almost 19 years ago. I still miss her, and you will always miss yours. But slowly things will be easier for you. If you like you can email me swillis95@gmail.com. Be kind to yourself and remember greiving is different for everyone, what works for someone else may not work for you.

Donna - posted on 09/26/2009

Thank you so much for that it means alot I amd blessed that i have 3 boy's 2 of them our out west and one is here close by. I know one day i will be with Sara she is getting things ready for when it's my turn to come and be with her I have alot of faith it took some time for me to come to this conclusionbut I am at a happier place now it helps to have friends and family again thank you.

J_ngaronoa_hb_ - posted on 09/26/2009

Kia Ora (Hello) I lost my son 1 year & 3 months ago due 2 a hit & run accident, the profile pic is of my granddaughter he left behind she was 5 months old when he passed, today I thank all those around me that helped me through such difficult times, there have been plenty, considering I look at everyday, as a big struggle, but I count my blessings for the life he gave to me because he left so many beautiful memories behind & I was blessed with a beautiful granddaughter, time will never heal & don't know how some people say it will, a lifetime with my children is all I evered wanted, but now I have to wait for that day when we are together again, here's a little something for you & anyone else who is reading my comment, I have this on another website of mine, Little did we know that morning God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone. For part of us went with you, the day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide. And though we cannot see you, you are always by our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same. But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again....When I feel depressed, I spray his favourite perfume on me, I look amongst the many photos of him, I talk amongst his many friends, they also have been a blessing to me as well, its a Beautiful Sunday morning here, I have my grandbabi in my arms as I leave you this, she's every bit like her Daddy, his traits & mischievous ways, I cry for her every second of the day, cos she misses out on the beautiful person we love & know! I am pleased to know you was given another beautiful angel, install as much of your thoughts you have of your precious babigurl into your little boi cos through him you will find a little bit of inner peace & know she may not be here physically but is always watching over you's & her little brother, riding alongside you's in life, waiting for the day when she can have you's again, Amen xO

Donna - posted on 09/26/2009

No i never talked to anyone but my husband and certian family members I am doing ok at first is was like a running into a brick wall but now it's been 7 yrs i'm doing much better i can do things and cry all the time it does help to talk about her she left behind this puppet she was sooo good at making it talk it's Genie from Adlain and i hug him every night when i wtach TV and talk to it I know your thinking looeny toon but i'm not it's all good I wish you all the best good things come to those who wait.

Tiffany - posted on 09/26/2009

i am so sorry for your loss i had lost 3 babies 2 that were stillborn and one that was a m/c and you never got over the loss of your child you just learn how to deal with it as time goes by it does help if you talk about them there are a lot of angel moms out there and on here and mypsace did you try to find a group that does help i did for me there is one called angelmoms its on yahoo they are wonderful people

Donna - posted on 09/24/2009

Every litte bit helps and yes i live one day at a time that's all you can do i'm so blessed that i have a great husband he makes me laugh. Laughter is the best medicine I am so glad that i do have my family around me when ever i need them but there are days i just want to be alone.

Rose-lynn - posted on 09/23/2009

you kown the onlything that you can do is one day at a time it will be a little better that i can do my daugther pass away a year a ago and i can tell you that she is in a better place she was heartranplant and she was only 2 so it can be hard because she was sick from day one life is so little and i hope you can move on but you have a part of her inside you it;s in your heart i got my daughter picture on the wall and it's helping me to see the picture that she is happy just take time and it will go away in time . i hope i can help you with this message thank-you sorry for your lost

Donna - posted on 09/20/2009

how old was she when she passed ? if you don't mind I lost my daughter June 8th 2002 she was 19 and in the military it's not easy and there are days i just break down but for the most part I have a wonderfull husband that make me smile and keeps me busy i also have 3 boy's and a grand daughter they named her after my daughter he rmiddle name that is all you can do is live one day at a time and think of the happy times you had with her and focus on your new baby make some awesome memories i'm here to talk to.