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I lost my child 5 years ago.

Tiara - posted on 06/17/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I lost my son five years ago on the same day he was born. I miss him so much. There isn't a day where I don't think of him. I only ever talk about my son to my fiancé who is The father of my baby. It's hard to have a conversation about my son to anyone because they always assume I wanna hear "I'm sorry for your loss". I just want someone to listen to what I want I have to say and not feel the need to say that they are sorry. I am glad I found this website.

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D - posted on 07/26/2012

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Loosing a child hurts no matter how long it has been. My daughter passed away after being with us for only two shorts days. This year she would have been 20. My advice is to never have an expectation on you grief. One year things will be good, others years you will feel the raw pain of it all over again. Let yourself feel. It is what you do with your grief not that you have it or feel it. I am sorry for your losses and know your pain all too well. Hugs.

Veronique - posted on 06/19/2012

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Its a week since a burried my 4 months and 3weeks daughter. Its painful but founding this webside made me @ easy because I found mothers with my similar story, who understand my pain. I haven't taken calls from my friends and colleague yet because I'm also scared of many sories, I'm scared to face the world because they will make me to talk about it and its painful. I'm glad there is some people I can talk with over her.

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