Lost A Daughter
Christy - posted on 04/20/2009
April the 17th was the anniversary of my Bailey's death she was 14 and was killed in a car accident, she was my oldest daughter and first born, I had her at 16, we were very close there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of Bailey and I am just now getting past the being mad at everyone including God for the loss of my baby girl...I have two other children and if not for them I would have died at my own hands the night she did, thank God for Jaylen and Topher God was all knowing as always and gave them to me before he took Bailey because for a very long time and still sometimes now they are the only thing that keeps me going, Jaylen is now exactly the same age Bailey was when she passed away and over the last three years I have watched her grow into a sweet daughter with a lot of her sisters characteristics, now I will watch her grow up I pray that God will not allow her to be taken from me.....and my son Topher who is 9yrs old what can I say he is my sweet sweet little man and he looks so much like Bailey I find comfort in them everyday, but I tell you what it took every bit of three years for me to find some kind of peace about Bailey's death and yes there are times I am still mad, still ask why this, or why that, why us but I do know I will know when I am reunited with her in heaven
Lynette - posted on 04/19/2009
Hi i have lost a daughter as well. My wonderful little girl Nicara was a stillborn. For the longest time i was embarressed to tell anyone. It tore me apart of course, it happened Oct 11 2002 and its been 7 yrs and i still think of her, and carry her in my heart. She was a beautiful baby fully developed. All 10 toes and fingers. If anyone reads this and this just happened to you, come talk to me add me as a freind as i can help and support people. ive heard that you should never name a stillbirth baby, but i did, and shes my daughter, and i even held her and everything.
My heart goes out to the men and ladies that have gone through this as its hard, and very hurtful. When i was at the hospital i told a nurse that god didnt want to clip her wings as she belonged in heaven with the rest of the angles.
Missi - posted on 04/19/2009
i'm so sorry for your loss. I have also lost a daughter, a little girl. She was 3 when she pasted, and it was 4 days before christmas! i do have 2 other children,without them I couldn't do it. My close family and friends really help me too. it will be 3 years this dec.
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