u could never spoil your child after u loose one

Pilar - posted on 08/29/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )




I lost my son in 97 he was six weeks old and i had a 3 yr old son and i did everything i could for my son and still do cause thats the only child i have now and i see nothing wrong with spoiling your child the right way..........

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Alisha - posted on 08/31/2009




My daughter is three, I fought for custody of her after her brother passed away, It took 6 months to prove to the courts that I am a good mom an had nothing to do with my son's death, an now my daughter has been home with me for two years! But she is SPOILED!!!! I don't think about it usually until we are around people that have younger aged children. But I have also decided that I am not the only one spoiling her, my entire family does! I think that spoiling her an loving her as much as we do is our way of loving her brother at the same time. Even the younger kids (that knew her an her brother) are extra nice an try to give her what she wants. I am scared that she will forever be this spoiled! I love my baby but at the same time I don't want her to grow up an think that everything is given to you an that I will do it all forever. I am really confused as to what is to much spoiling or the right way to spoil her. I had no problem when it was just her but we are staying with a friend that also has kids an I can't handle the way that she cries an thinks she always needs her way. I am lost!

Julie - posted on 08/31/2009




I guess as long as it is the righ way I lost my son Toby 2 1/2 yrs ago and am just begining to relize I have parrented my other kids from guilt and fear leeting them get away with more then I should adn it hasnt helped them in any way at times I look at my 4yr old and wonder how she become so spoilt but I know....and now I am working on reversing that and becoming the firm loving parent I was before Toby died....it feels good like I have a bit of me again and a stronger me....this is just how i have been feeling...lots of happiness to you and your son

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